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Very Worried

  • 01-04-2008 10:33am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all. Looking for advice on what to do here. Recently started seeing a girl and we have had sex several times. Last time was on Sunday night. Things were getting hot and heavy and I went to put on the condom. Started to put it on and realised it was the wrong way around, ie the roll was facing the wrong way..... I didnt even think and stupily pulled it the right way around and put it on. When I started to put it on the first time it definately touched the head of my penis.

    I now realise how stupid that was as there may have been pre-cum on the outside of condom. Any advice what I should as im very worried? Not sure how to say this to the girl. Im not really that experienced with reationships or sex.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 60 ✭✭Burnt Toast


    1 in a Zillion. Seriously, don't worry.

    Get your girlfriend or whatever to get a pregnancy test if it'll put your mind at easy, but honestly, i wouldn't worry about it. Chances are sooooooooo small.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    You can google Morning After Pill just in case but chances would be slim to none.

    edit http://www.vhi.ie/hfiles/hf-251.jsp


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,505 ✭✭✭nevaeh-2die-4


    don’t worry man u will be fine!!!!

    Once the bell end was protected during "The Finale" u will be good.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 112 ✭✭JemimaPD


    I wudn't worry, to really put ur mind at ease, talk to ur gf in a neutral area. Do u know if she is taking the pill as well as u using condoms? If so then def dont worry. If after ur talk u both are concerned take a test and get the morning after pill. Both u'll be grand


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭colly10


    Just forget about it, you have nothing to worry about


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    You've more chance of bein hit by a bus tomorrow, which, when you think about it, would be a million times worse.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,119 ✭✭✭Wagon


    Not a chance in hell. Don't be worrying.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,991 ✭✭✭el tel


    The jimmy-hat will most likely have spermizide in the lubricant so you should be ok should any of your wee fellas have made a dash for it before you got down to the vinegar strokes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    I think you should tell her. She has a right to know just in case. You should have told her before so she could get the morning after pill. Stranger things have happened than people getting pregnant like that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    There are too many people here saying not to worry. While I agree in principle with these posters I do want to highlight clearly that there is always a chance, no matter how minute, of getting pregnant in such situations.

    Many factors are in your favour here: use of a condom, spermicide on condom, etc. But if you are worried, then you should tell her. She will know where she was in her cycle, which may further decrease the odds.

    BTW, if this all happened over 3 days ago, then taking the Morning After Pill (MAP) will have lost most, if not all, of it's effectiveness.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Ok.... just wanted to give an update.

    Thanks to all for the advice. It was eating at me so told her tonight. She hadnt said anything but she had gone on the pill since a week or two after we started seeing eachother :O

    Needless to say I was relieved.... definately learned a lesson here. Will be alot more careful in the future.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 230 ✭✭chris_oc


    unless you're the most fertile man in ireland i'd relax the kacks!!:p


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