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Crush problemo

  • 31-03-2008 9:15pm
    #1
    StuckintheMud1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭


    I know three really nice guys, 1, 2 and 3.

    Anyway, the problem is that 1, 2 and 3, are all friends. 1 has a crush on me for a year now, I had never noticed until my friends made him confess. He used to be one of my best friends, but then we got into a big fight. Two years later, "1 fancy's you. Did ya know that?" Then 2, is a great friend of his. 2 is also great friends with 3. I like 3, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I hurt him two years ago and I wanna apologize, but I'm too embarrassed. I think 3 likes me, as he complimented my sunglasses and is quite nice to me, hopefully noticing how I don't make fun of him while sticking up for him when my BFF calls him names. He looks a bit like my dad, who I don't like, so mean thoughts come into my head every time I try to be nice. Then I end up not being nice. I feel terrible straight away, for a few day to a month or two. My BFF started to get suspicious today of how I stick up for him absolutely every time shes says something bad about him, and thinks I like him, which I do. I'm just too embarrassed to tell her as she doesn't like him, causing him to call her an Emo. I really like him. I hope he likes me. I have no idea though as I've never had a boyfriend before. And I don't know how to show him I like him, without making it too obvious in case he doesn't like me.

    So, if 1 likes me, and I like 3, then 1 will get sad if i like 3, while 2 will be torn between his friends if 1 thinks I like him and 3 knows I like him.

    How can I tell if he likes me too, too? How can I show I like him? I have always gone to an all girls school, which was a bit of a problem in the dating/love area. I'm great at most subjects, just not really Science, getting a C in that on my report card last time, but with getting A+'s on my last two test's, I'm improving. Also, I didn't do the Christmas test, which caused a loss in marks.

    Stuck in the Mud


Comments

  • #2
    AlmightyCushion
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,125 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Moved from after hours.


  • #3
    Gator
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 602 ✭✭✭Gator


    1, 2,3 head off


  • #4
    StuckintheMud1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭StuckintheMud1


    I 1. Don't know if he likes me.
    2. Don't know how to subtley show him I like him, when all the times I walk away from him I would have just been saying "Will ya stop making fun of him!" or "Stop shouting! I said I think my DOG IS A COW!! NOT HIM!!!" (My dog ate a lot of grass one day)
    3. I'm afraid Imight make a fool of myself infront of him and his friends incase he doesn't like me.
    4. I'm afraid I might break up a friendship.


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    StuckintheMud1 wrote: »
    I think 3 likes me, as he complimented my sunglasses

    He sounds completely mad about you if he did that. Go for it.


  • #6
    StuckintheMud1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭StuckintheMud1


    Miss Fluff wrote: »
    He sounds completely mad about you if he did that. Go for it.
    Yeah, I thought they weren't that nice at all, but they were free with my glasses, so why not take them!

    Are you sure Miss Fluff? Or is that sarcasm? Using bold and all...


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  • #7
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    Considering the fact that you are using the term 'BFF' I presume you are a teenager.

    If you're worried about what your friend thinks about the guy you like then maybe you're not yet mature enough to be in a relationship.


  • #8
    StuckintheMud1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭StuckintheMud1


    I didn't care until they wouldn't stop fighting. Now she hates him, but he's not bothered in talking to her and I'm with her a LOT, causing him to be told to get away whenever she sees him come over, or else she'll once again call him a cow, because I said, "I think hes a cow," (messing!) when 3 walked by, and she was talking about 3, while i was talking about my dog. he ate too much grass one day.


  • #9
    elpresdentde
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 143 ✭✭elpresdentde


    wow i read your post and I'm utterly lost and i think if i read it again IL probably get a headache
    I'm glad i'm not a teenage girl or a teenager for that matter


  • #10
    board om
    Closed Accounts Posts: 643 ✭✭✭board om


    ahhh, to be young again. wasnt it great when life was easy and your biggest worry was having a crush on someone and not being sure if they liked you back? i really miss the simplicity of youth.

    OP, all i can say is if you really like this guy, then go for it. what have you got to lose? you have to take a chance some time in life so just go for it. whats the worst that can happen? just dont put yourself in any silly situations like making a video confessing your undying love and putting it on youtube or anything like that.

    seize the day, your only young once so enjoy it and make the most of it.

    all the best


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