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Need Advice

  • 24-03-2008 4:27pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok i won't bore people with the details but basically my girlfriend suffers from depression. Bi-Polar to be exact. It runs in her family.

    I'm with this girl nearly 4 years and she is my life. I put her way above myself in every way but (i don't neglect myself). I love her and it's really long-term. ANYWAY, i'm in my 20's and thanks to being a guy my sex drive is sometimes through the roof especially around this age. Somedays I crave it a lot.

    My girlfriend thanks to her Bi-Polar has seen her libido drop severly and i'm finding it frustrating to deal with. I'm not one of these guys that just looks for sex, i'm a decent guy but obviously sex is important. We openly chat about it and she said she feels a lot of guilt because I'm not getting what I need (and what could help her to unwind).

    I'm completely understanding and I never push her but i'm finding myself so frustrated these days it's getting me really down that she feels this way and I can't help her and enjoy our relationship in the many ways we used to.

    Anyway I'm just wondering if anybody has been in this boat before and what helped you?

    Thanks


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