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Condom-breaker

  • 23-03-2008 11:02pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Long term member, but have decided to go unreg.

    This is not a troll post, it's something that's really frustrating me, it seems silly but it's real, and it's incredibly annoying

    I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time, I love him, we've a great relationship and we have great sex. I finally find a guy, who is great socially, intellectually, physically, and sexually (halleuijah!) and then this happens...I enjoy it so much that I can't enjoy it.

    The problem is that I get too turned on, and as a result get incredibly tight. At times, and in the past few months I've been getting, well, too tight (wet too), so tight in fact in that condoms just keep breaking, and we'll be midway through and then realise that it's broken yet again, one time we actually had to go through a whole packet before we well, you know..

    Anyway, it's really annoying because I freak out- what if it breaks again just as he ejaculates-which once it did, i'd to get the morning after pill, I was worried for ages my period was 2 weeks late (freaking out is an understatement)-and then twice when we were having sex, i was really enjoying it, but then it broke, i freaked out and then I wasn't in the mood...

    My boyfriend really enjoys the sex, as do I but...it's constantly in the back of my mind.

    Basically has this happened to anyone else? Any suggestions?

    (Before anyone suggests lube, we've tried it in the past, but I'm rather sensitive downstairs and I actually felt like my crotch was on fire once and I have screamed before as it was so irritating.)


    Thank you, I realise that this is a rather strange query.


Comments

  • #2
    kittenkiller
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,433 ✭✭✭kittenkiller


    Long term monogamous relationship?
    Try the pill.


  • #3
    spinandscribble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    even if he doesnt come you can get preggy btw.
    try the pill or implant. i cant believe this has been going on for months and you havnt done anything yet.


  • #4
    tolosenc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,889 ✭✭✭tolosenc


    spinandscribble wrote: »
    even if he doesnt come you can get preggy btw.

    Not quite...


  • #5
    The Sweeper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,658 ✭✭✭✭The Sweeper


    OP, try the pill, and if you don't like the idea of the pill (which I don't myself), try something like Nuvaring.


  • #6
    crotalus667
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,900 ✭✭✭crotalus667


    obl wrote: »
    Not quite...


    errrr yeah you can , in some cases the pre-cum can do it (or so my bio teacher said)


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  • #7
    spinandscribble
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭spinandscribble


    crotalus667 wrote: »
    errrr yeah you can , in some cases the pre-cum can do it (or so my bio teacher said)

    exactly. theres a bit of a debate on this but tbh theres a reason WHY ppl laugh at the pulling out method...:p


  • #8
    Wurly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭Wurly


    Hey, there is a condition called Vaginismus. It causes tightening of the vaginal muscles and causes pain and irritation when you have sex.

    Please go to your doctor to see if you have it. Dont be scared, its treatable.

    I may have it totally wrong but from what you've described, it sounds like vaginismus.

    Best of luck,

    Tri


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