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First Kiss?

  • 20-03-2008 3:56pm
    #1
    hiro_fan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭


    Okay, so I'll be turning 20 next month and I haven't had my first kiss yet. Is anyone else in the same boat and if you were with someone who hadn't had their first kiss yet would you feel weird about it?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I was in the same boat at your age. I was shy and didn't go to discos etc in my teens so that didn't help. The longer it went the more it can bother you. Just like some people aren't into casual sex the idea of random 'scoring' never appealed to me either so I thought "if it's gone this long I don't see the point in doing it with some randomer just to get it out of the way"
    If you try to forget about it it's easier. I know easier said than done. But it does kinda work that way. The less you fixate on it the more likely it is to come about. As much as that sounds a contradiction.
    Basically relax and don't let it bother you. It really isn't a big deal. And no it wouldn't bother me in the slightest if I knew I'd be a persons first kiss. If you're worried about how you'd perform just think how much pressure the experienced person would have knowing they've to set the standard for you ;)


  • #3
    TouchingVirus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,584 ✭✭✭TouchingVirus


    Not in the same boat but I sure wouldn't feel "weird" about giving somebody their first kiss :)


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi hiro-fan. I was so relieved when I saw your post. I'm in the same situation as you and was really beginning to feel really bad about it at this stage


  • #5
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    not a first kiss but it may as well have been. so i had been in the same situation. Just relax and stop worrying about it. once you do these things make themselves happen.


  • #6
    ShaneU
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,024 ✭✭✭✭ShaneU


    look here http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055249018&highlight=first+kiss


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  • #7
    Placebo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,070 ✭✭✭Placebo


    TouchingVirus wrote: »
    Not in the same boat

    lol, i was thinking otherwise !
    Dont worry OP, late bloomer. You dont need to disclose it to your first kiss either, she/he wont know.


  • #8
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    I didn't have my first kiss till I was 18 &half. And the guy had to try on 3 separate occasions to do it because I was so nervous of messing up. Best thing is if the situation comes up - just go with the flow. Honest that's the best way to do it :)


  • #9
    Drift
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,395 ✭✭✭Drift


    I was 23 when I had my first kiss OP. I was the same way as you I used to worry about being terrible at it and it never happening etc etc. It's very hard to do but what everybody says about it happening when you don't expect it is kinda true. You'll know when it's coming obviously but it's most likely to happen at a time and on an occasion when you're not expecting it. I think the reason for this is because people are more relaxed and can show their true personality better when they're not worrying or fretting.

    So my advice is even though it's tough you need to tell yourself that it WILL happen sometime so what does the age matter. Once you're in the mind frame that it's bound to happen at some stage then you'll be more relaxed in yourself and will attract more of the opposite sex!

    Also I would have absolutely no problem being someone's first kiss.


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