Sexual Problem for lads

LegacyUser

Hey Im going unreg for this! Maybe the lads might be able to shed sum light on this. Im 23,
I've been seeing this this girl for 2 months and things going great,we havent slept together yet..but while we are getting get quite into it(kissing,fondling etc) obviously I go a lil hard...nothing wrong yet...but as the night goes on on we're getting into things I start to develop a king of cramp that grows and gets worse-literally aching(testes and aove thepelvis area). Now it's not unbearable-but the only way this disappears is when(I head home) I masturbate. Is this normal?Have you had this experience?
By the way I have had other relationships and it's happened also when I don't obviously get to have intercourse. Thanks,Doug

yawnstretch

I've had this too. Not every time but yeah I know what you're talking about. Anyone got any more info on this?

Susannahmia

It's called blue balls.

woolymammoth

dougie4 wrote: »

... this disappears is when(I head home) I masturbate. ... it's happened also when I don't obviously get to have intercourse.

Methinks you have already solved the mystery!

Sorry, i don't mean to be smart. It's happened us all man, all play and fondling for a long time followed by no action can give you a pain in the nuts, more commonly known as blue balls, and in the groin.

Enjoy!

Colonel_McCoy

Yes blue balls.............you need your dump your load b4 u meet her!

Sherifu

Susannahmia wrote: »

It's called blue balls.

Indeed.

milod

Colonel_McCoy wrote: »

Yes blue balls.............you need your dump your load b4 u meet her!

Yeah! Just don't leave any in your hair eh?

Alternatively, if you're already kissing and fondling, why not, er, ask her to finish the 'job in hand' so to speak?

m83

Worst. pain. ever.