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So Lonely

  • 03-03-2008 12:41pm
    #1
    Soupi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 79 ✭✭


    I've been going out with my Boyfriend for about 2 years now and I love him so much. I moved in with him a few months ago and now live about an hour away from my friends and family. I also gave up my job because the commute was way too much. I am now persuing a modelling career so am only working maybe a day or two days during the week.

    The problem in that I don't really know many people where I'm living and am so lonely. I know my Boyfriend's friend's girlfriends from night's out but I don't really know them well enough to call over to them, they are all quite close to each other and I'm not.

    Only one of my friend's from home has been out to see the house (which I gutted out and decorated myself), the rest haven't visited yet. I've asked them loads of times and have said that I'll pick them up and drop them home but they always seem to be too busy.

    The problem is that I'm so lonely out here, my Boyfriend doesn't value friendships as much as I do and doesn't invite anyone over to the house much. I love when he's around but when he's not I get so down. I miss being around people and having a laugh. Any advice??


Comments

  • #2
    Burnt Toast
    Closed Accounts Posts: 60 ✭✭Burnt Toast


    You're only an hour away, why not drive? If you don't drive, i suggest you start.

    It's an hour, i know people is far worse situations


  • #3
    john_aero
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 279 ✭✭john_aero


    drive, i travell 1.5hrs to work as i want to be with my OH


  • #4
    Soupi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 79 ✭✭Soupi


    I do drive but alot of my friends don't. I've told them that I'll collect them and drop them home but basically they don't seem to be making any effort or even interested for that matter.


  • #5
    john_aero
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 279 ✭✭john_aero


    a lot fo people are like that sadly. i had get rid of my old frineds as some of them wouldnt make an effort. got to realise you cant be used and depended on to make the effort all the time. go where your heart is and dont stay or move some wehre that makes you miserable.

    also friends can be made again. i have lost 3 batches of friends but each time i get new ones they are always better and more dependable than the last


  • #6
    Soupi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 79 ✭✭Soupi


    Thanks John_Aero that gives me a bit of hope. I like where I'm living and want to stay here and I suppose you can't make people make an effort, if that makes sense, ha ha


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  • #7
    john_aero
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 279 ✭✭john_aero


    it does make sense, and if they wont then concider your options. make friends where you are and that will end sll the travelling, stress and pain. friends do coem and go, thoes who are real friends will make the effort to stay


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