Should I be worried?

LegacyUser

Ok so im on the internet minding my own business and I get a call from anonymous number, claiming my girlfriend is a fly girl and to be warned, shes up to something with a close guy friend (no mention of anyones name or nothing!) etc etc...

I immediately thought ah haha good joke as I know my girlfriend would never hurt me! Im with her 24/7 so when would she find the time 2 do something like that!

I replied well man hey dont be worrying about me im fine, ill look out for myself and he said ok just thought i'd let you know!

SO now should i be worried there is some twisted guy out there who wants me and my girlfriend broken up? or should i not look into it 2 much? 2 be honest I was so hurt by this call!
still am but its getting better!

please opinions needed! cheers!

AnonoBoy

No mention of names or what's she's done?

Sounds like someone has something against either you or your girlfriend and is trying to plant the seeds of doubt that he hopes will lead to a break-up.

Could be any number of reasons for this - he likes your girlfriend and wants to have a chance with her, he hates your girlfriend and wants her to be miserable or he hates you and wants you to be miserable. Or could just a sick moron who thinks it's funny to **** with people's heads.

People are strange and do odd things.

john_aero

hard one to call realy, you could go down the road of checking her phone but then thats a trust issue gone right out the window. ask her about it.

you could show her the number if it appeared on your phone and ask her if she knows who it is.

AnonoBoy

john_aero wrote: »

you could show her the number if it appeared on your phone and ask her if she knows who it is.

The OP said it was an anonymous number. To be honest - if the person didn't name names or want you to know who they are then it's most likely a pile of BS.

Mention it to your girlfriend but not as an accusation - just in a 'some crazy fool rang me' kinda way.

TheDriver

Tell it to your gf, but don't ask. You can't do anything more than that really. And if its BS, then all will be fine really.

Sherifu

Tell her about the call, see what she says.

LegacyUser

Yeah thanks, I did tell her and I never doubted her for a second!
Shes with me all the time like. But its the fact somebody went to all that bother!

It was probably just a prank call but could be someone out 2 get one off us as few off you have pointed out!

Sherifu

It's good you've told her so she knows to watch out for this ****. I wouldn't be too worried unless this person tries something again.

BaZmO*

worried? wrote: »

Im with her 24/7

How?

LegacyUser

BaZmO* wrote: »

How?

Ah it was a figure of speech, but I meant when shes not at school we are with eachother and nights out we go out alone etc
We're really close couple in otherwords!

BaZmO*

worried? wrote: »

....when shes not at school....

Ahh...you're only school kids. I'd just say it's someone taking the p1ss so. I wouldn't worry about it.

meglome

Still who in their right mind thinks that's okay to do. People really have issues.

LegacyUser

BaZmO* wrote: »

Ahh...you're only school kids. I'd just say it's someone taking the p1ss so. I wouldn't worry about it.

Im 20 finished at college and everything am not no kid!:P

Miss Fluff

Did he mention your GF by name?

BaZmO*

worried? wrote: »

Im 20 finished at college and everything am not no kid!:P

Well you type like a kid.

And sure didn't you say your girlfriend was in school? The point I was making was that because both of you were quite young it wouldn't be beyond the realms of possibility for the phone call to be from someone within your peer group.

LegacyUser

Miss Fluff wrote: »

Did he mention your GF by name?

yeah but still, Ive been thinking about it and NOBODY would genuinely do that if it were true!
I just feel worried as I dont know who this was and they could be anyone close to me and laughing behind my back!

Its ****ty thing to have to deal with.

Sherifu

I knew there was a reason I never answer anonymous callers.

calahans

she sounds superfly to me

Profiler

Sounds to me like some jealous clown is trying to sow the seeds of doubt in your mind and is hoping to break you two up as a couple, probably with a view of taking your place as her BF!