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broken up, fine, bar one thing

  • 22-02-2008 11:08pm
    #1
    uprooted shane
    Closed Accounts Posts: 250 ✭✭


    right so, il keep this short and sweet, i was going out with my ex for about a year and a half, me only being 18, and before was a bit of a player as much as i hate to say it, ment alot for me, we had been together before but onle for 4 or so months.

    so anyways, around xmas, we start driftin you know, and we end up goin on a break, and breakin up then soon after. thats all grand,were still friends now, so its all cool

    whats not cool is the fact that during the end, she was gettin close to one of my "friends", whom now, and almost straght after started going out with. thats grand, but i find out that there posting it all over bebo and such that she loves him and he loves her.

    now dont get me wrong, i dont want her back, im glad were not together any more, it was just time for it to end, but at the time, i was madly in love with her, and she was with me, or so i thought, untill i here that now shes in love with a lad shes known since the start of december.

    i just feel like to her, us ment nothing, despite she told me i was her everything on more then a million ocations.

    now is it just me or am i right for feelin a bit crappy about it?

    thanks in advance

    uprooted out!


Comments

  • #2
    Jack B. Badd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,294 ✭✭✭Jack B. Badd


    It's just you. You need to move on. She has and holding it against her will just make you miserable.


  • #3
    jdivision
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,260 ✭✭✭jdivision


    Some girls say they love somebody fairly quickly. Otherwise they might be doing it to get a kick, knowing you'll be reading it. Forget about it and move on.


  • #4
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    You were drifting apart - so it doesnt sound to me like she was trying to mislead you. The hard truth is she doesnt owe you an explaination either way; and for your own sake don't search for one - you'll only hurt yourself. She wanted to find something else and theres not much you can say to that. Move on.


  • #5
    uprooted shane
    Closed Accounts Posts: 250 ✭✭uprooted shane


    right, just have to cop my self on a bit!


    thanks guys! hope ye all have great days :D


  • #6
    passive
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,403 ✭✭✭passive


    This is eerily relevant... =/


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  • #7
    Talliesin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,314 ✭✭✭Talliesin


    You weren't everything. He isn't everything now.

    It's perfectly acceptable hyperbole, but don't take it literally.

    As for their public displays of affection, do you really think you'd be any different if you were to fall for someone tomorrow?

    Besides, it can be just as bad to keep things discreet for the sake of a recently dumped lover. If she'd tried to be discreet for your sake then when you eventually found out about them you might be wondering now if they'd been together since before you split up.


  • #8
    Tragamin2k2
    Closed Accounts Posts: 694 ✭✭✭Tragamin2k2


    shes probably looking for a reaction outa you...dont give her one


  • #9
    gamer
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,227 ✭✭✭gamer


    i thinks its stupid to put on bebo,im in love with ,joe bloggs,whoever, cant u just put ,im in relationship.ITS sounds like your annoyed cos shes in love with your friend ,and it may have started DURING your relationship ,people can be infatuated ,could 2people fall in love in2months then fall out of love,AT the same time.Thats very unlikely ,2months is a short relationship.SO this woman fell in love twice with 2men,in a 3month period, thats fairly unlikely i think.Maybes shes young and immature .


  • #10
    geminilady
    Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭geminilady


    it prob did mean alot to her ur relationship, but it beats mopping round the house feeling down on yourself.I think people tend to use bebo to just self promote themselves. Try to stay away from her bebo cause its just going to make u feel worse and think about moving on.Good luck! : )


  • #11
    uprooted shane
    Closed Accounts Posts: 250 ✭✭uprooted shane


    Talliesin wrote: »
    ......
    As for their public displays of affection, do you really think you'd be any different if you were to fall for someone tomorrow?

    Besides, it can be just as bad to keep things discreet for the sake of a recently dumped lover. If she'd tried to be discreet for your sake then when you eventually found out about them you might be wondering now if they'd been together since before you split up.

    oh its not the fact that shes found some one so fast, i mean im mad about a girl from college and things are going great with her, its the fact that after like what, 2 months, shes in love again. it just kinda hurts a wee bit that shes in love apparenty, only because it keeps makin me think that, did i mean half as much to her as she did to me, if she is im happy for her, cos like i said shes still my good friend,


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