Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

please help

  • 05-02-2008 11:08am
    #1
    annemarie13
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭


    ok my friend is paranoid with her looks.she literally will stop at every object that she can see her reflection in.she cares only for herself thrust me i no.(shes 18 and had affair with her boyfriends best friend too)

    anyway its really annoyin me the way she looks at eveery mirror.but worst of all she always says to me"do i look ugly" or as of yesturday"i hope your friend doesnt think i was ugly cause i had no make up on"

    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! help wat should i do!


Comments

  • #2
    evry1sm8
    Closed Accounts Posts: 284 ✭✭evry1sm8


    Sounds to me like your friend is really self-concious and a bit insecure.
    Maybe she has low confidence and thinks people will only like her for how she looks?


  • #3
    RuggieBear
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,958 ✭✭✭✭RuggieBear


    find a new friend


  • #4
    denashpot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 277 ✭✭denashpot


    RuggieBear wrote: »
    find a new friend

    2nd that! :p


  • #5
    evry1sm8
    Closed Accounts Posts: 284 ✭✭evry1sm8


    I dont agree.
    Talk to her about why she thinks her looks are so important.


  • #6
    annemarie13
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭annemarie13


    evry1sm8 wrote: »
    Sounds to me like your friend is really self-concious and a bit insecure.
    Maybe she has low confidence and thinks people will only like her for how she looks?

    she used to be but she changed once she got a boyfriend.she has great confidence.thanks though!


  • Advertisement
  • #7
    annemarie13
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 74 ✭✭annemarie13


    evry1sm8 wrote: »
    I dont agree.
    Talk to her about why she thinks her looks are so important.

    good plan actually thanks


  • #8
    Meathlass
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Meathlass


    annemarie13 wrote: »
    she used to be but she changed once she got a boyfriend.she has great confidence.thanks though!

    She sounds very immature especially if she's cheating on her boyfriend, tbh, she sounds like a child and a really annoying one at that.


  • #9
    BornInThe80's
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17 ✭BornInThe80's


    Next time she asks if she looks ugly... say yes, when she pauses with that 'did she just say yes' look on her face. Tell her to get real, cop on and start caring about who she is, what type of person she sees in herself and what she believes. Being secure and confident is very important. I agree with other posters, she's insecure, hence the cheating. She's attracted by any interest she gets, whether she REALLY wants it or not. You never know, she might not want this afair, but the thought of bein desirable to somebody sparks a feeling. It's a reflex that she needs to learn to control, and she will, once she starts accepting herself.

    ............or she's just a self centred idiot, but I think you'd know that yourself if she was.


Advertisement