Opinion

LegacyUser

Met a girl at party a few weeks ago. She seemed nice so we swapped numbers but I didn't really think much of it at the time. Got a few texts from her and she seemed pretty eager to meet up again. We did last weekend and had a good night. I actually liked her more than I thought I would and everything went really well. We parted company in the early hours and she text me to say she really enjoyed herself and would text me the next day.

3 days later and I haven't heard a thing! Is this game playing or should I just let this one slide?

Anyone any wisdom to offer on this?

Richard Roma

Girls usually expect the guy to text. Maybe she had one too many when she said that she'd text you

Overheal

Text her.

Wibbs

It's great when things are simple between two people. When it's not take the bull by the horns and text, or god forbid call her.

whiskeyman

Unregulator wrote: »

3 days later and I haven't heard a thing!

If it's a game... break all the rules and stop playing it.
How?

CALL HER!!

Yes, don't txt her. Why? Because you'll then be wondering when she'll reply, and she'll wonder when is the right time to txt you back.
Forget all that childish crap.
Ring her... ask her how she is and how much you enjoyed her company last weekend. Ask her if you'd like to meet up this weekend.

Done

Simple, isn't it?

MonkeyTennis

three whole days you say? Text her.

LegacyUser

Thanks for the input. Whole thing just seemed a bit weird. Needed another opinion.
I'll drop her a line tomorrow.
Cheers.

whiskeyman

Unregulator wrote: »

Thanks for the input. Whole thing just seemed a bit weird. Needed another opinion.
I'll drop her a line tomorrow.
Cheers.

Good man!!
Best of luck!

Esel

Unregulator wrote: »

Thanks for the input. Whole thing just seemed a bit weird. Needed another opinion.
I'll drop her a line tomorrow.
Cheers.

Grow some balls, mate. Call, don't text.

minidazzler

whiskeyman wrote: »

If it's a game... break all the rules and stop playing it.
How?

CALL HER!!

Yes, don't txt her. Why? Because you'll then be wondering when she'll reply, and she'll wonder when is the right time to txt you back.
Forget all that childish crap.
Ring her... ask her how she is and how much you enjoyed her company last weekend. Ask her if you'd like to meet up this weekend.

Done

Simple, isn't it?

I agree but only if ye are not young.

If ye are less than 21 then just text.

actually text her, stop sitting aroung holdin your knob take the initiative.

swordsgal27

Text her , but dont go on saying how much you enjoyed her company etc etc ,way too eager and us women run away from "too eager" stupid i know but were from different planets text to say hiya and how she just popped into your head or somethin like that , its a shame but games are always played no matter how old we are , best of luck with it ,

AngryBadger

Unregulator wrote: »

Thanks for the input. Whole thing just seemed a bit weird. Needed another opinion.
I'll drop her a line tomorrow.
Cheers.

Why wait until tomorrow? Is this some kinda "Pancake Tuesday" thing?

Overheal

Tomorrow was today at the time of the post

cassiedoll

I personally have done that with blokes.....i wont go in to all the reasons as to why i did it. But if this girl was genuinely interested in you...she would text u back trust me.

LegacyUser

cassiedoll wrote: »

I personally have done that with blokes.....i wont go in to all the reasons as to why i did it. But if this girl was genuinely interested in you...she would text u back trust me.

Methinks your right on that one. Spoke to the girl today and got a fairly polite side-step and a maybe for the future but you wouldn't need to be Dr Phil to work out the subtext.

Its not the turn-down that's annoying really its the speed of the turn around. I honestly thought the date went well and she didn't seem to have any issues at the time!! Obviously not.

Still I have no problem with that....thats her prerogative....would like to know why but hey.....sh*t happens!
Now... where are those pancakes..............