pregnancy worries after sex

LegacyUser

hey all, i have a bit of a problem. wondering if any of the other lads on here every experience it. im 20 years old, at uni, been up to all the usual stuff but lately my head has been driving mad after i would have sex with anyone. my mate got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 19 and it was such a major hassle and my parents are real old school, strict irish catholic, anyways, everytime i would ever sleep with a girl theyve either been on the pill or ive used a condom and afterwards i literally cant sleep for about 3 days cause im convinced that the pill wont have worked, the condom broke or something daft.

i went out with a girl for 2 years and had a major pregnancy scare which i think is what done this. Anyway other night i was out on the lash after rugby, girl ive kissed few times, she came to mine, anyway long story short, had sex, i used a condom, about ten minutes into it i noticed the condom had slid up my penis about roughly fifth of the way, i totally freaked out, stopped immediately, and took it off, it wasn't broke and it wasn't torn or anything, i hadn't came as she had given me a bj beforehand. ive heard my mates saying thats happened them before and they just pull it back down and keep going.

So basically, is there any chance i could have got her pregnant and who could i talk to to try and get this daftness outta my head? i just always imagine getting phonecalls from girls telling me they have a problem. i know lot of people prolly think im being a muppet and shouldn't be having sex if im that daft after it but when im out on the lash i always forget but it kills me the next day/days and it always ruins it. sorry about ranting on. many thanks in advance.

MIN2511

No, she is not pregnant. Was she on the pill? Did she take the morning after pill?
I reckon she is fine, if you are in serious doubt i reckon a trip to your GP should clarify things.

colly10

help-please wrote: »

hey all, i have a bit of a problem. wondering if any of the other lads on here every experience it. im 20 years old, at uni, been up to all the usual stuff but lately my head has been driving mad after i would have sex with anyone. my mate got his girlfriend pregnant when he was 19 and it was such a major hassle and my parents are real old school, strict irish catholic, anyways, everytime i would ever sleep with a girl theyve either been on the pill or ive used a condom and afterwards i literally cant sleep for about 3 days cause im convinced that the pill wont have worked, the condom broke or something daft.

i went out with a girl for 2 years and had a major pregnancy scare which i think is what done this. Anyway other night i was out on the lash after rugby, girl ive kissed few times, she came to mine, anyway long story short, had sex, i used a condom, about ten minutes into it i noticed the condom had slid up my penis about roughly fifth of the way, i totally freaked out, stopped immediately, and took it off, it wasn't broke and it wasn't torn or anything, i hadn't came as she had given me a bj beforehand. ive heard my mates saying thats happened them before and they just pull it back down and keep going.

So basically, is there any chance i could have got her pregnant and who could i talk to to try and get this daftness outta my head? i just always imagine getting phonecalls from girls telling me they have a problem. i know lot of people prolly think im being a muppet and shouldn't be having sex if im that daft after it but when im out on the lash i always forget but it kills me the next day/days and it always ruins it. sorry about ranting on. many thanks in advance.

Not something which has happened to me but defenitly nothing to worry about

steo123

do we really need all the details about bj beforehand etc ?

condoms are highly reliable.

did ur m8 use a condom when he impregnated his gf?i suspect not so

:eek:

dory

Well, I think the constant worry rather than that one time is more the issue here. Not sure what to say really, only that having a baby isn't the end of the world. I know it can totally change your life, but not necessarily ruin it. Just be careful and have fun!

LegacyUser

you should get billy boy condoms - they're quite tight and wont roll back up or slip off; at least that's my experience with em. at least that's my experience with them, nearly worked my way through 100 can get them at www.smartpaddy.ie works out at 36c each; pfft who cares about vat rate at a price like that

babydoll2008

Awe its so sweet your freaking out about it!!
Im a girl and if u only knew what we go through when we are only like a few days late!
I honestly dont think she could be pregnant but it wouldnt be any harm to give her a text to see was she on the pill or if she went for the morning after.
And mate even if she says she's on the pill use a condom boy, i was on the pill and i found myself preg, but had a miscarriage. The pill aint 100% protection and i took it everyday bang on same time never missed a day and wasnt on any meds or nothing to screw it up.

John Mason

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

SarahSassy

irishbird wrote: »

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

Because he wants to sleep around????? :rolleyes:

OP, when you are next in a relationship with a girl on the pill you could also try to continue using condoms which will effectlively eliminate the chances of her getting pg. In any event, if you are sleeping with numerous partners you should be using condoms with all of them unless you have had a full STD check.

MLE

irishbird wrote: »

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

+1

Rb

Don't worry about it OP, I very much doubt she is pregnant.

However, even if it did happen, she'd know about it after roughly a month or whatever when her monthly visitors disappear and abortions are relatively cheap these days.

fuzzywiggle

I've missed pills and had unprotected sex (very foolishly, and i was in a long term relationship at the time) and I didn't get pregnant. And my friends have done it too and not got pregnant. That's not to say the same will happen to you but the chances of you getting a girl pregnant from what you said are highly unlikely.

I suggest you ALWAYS wear a condom. If you're having one night stands you really don't know what you're coming into contact with. Even if you think she's clean..she may not even know if she had something. And plus it will put your mind at ease..using the condom and the pill, well it's a very slim chance a girl would get pregnant.

mikey08

Just stick it in her ass and then you won't have to worry about getting her pregnant.

Wibbs

mikey08, I broke my sides laughing. Then I banned you.

JuliusCaesar

help-please wrote: »

know lot of people prolly think im being a muppet and shouldn't be having sex if im that daft after it but when im out on the lash i always forget but it kills me the next day/days and it always ruins it.

errr..........drink sensibly?

Mrs OBumble

MLE wrote: »

+1

+1 more!

DILLIGAF

I used to have awful post-sex panic! So much so it was kinda hard to enjoy it and isn't that what it's all about??? re:my other thread.... -_-

So yeah, I know a few guys just like me who all used to freak out after sex that they had definitely got her pregnant! The easiest thing to do, is only sleep with really attractive women, this way, if you do get her pregnant, it's kind of a negative and a positive. Yeah she's pregnant, but she's also really fit so at least you won't have an ugly child! Plus you won't have to tell anyone why a rather attractive young lady is hanging off you all the time until the bump shows! Probably the worst advice ever, but bottom line, only get really hot chicks pregnant!

LegacyUser

mikey08 wrote: »

Just stick it in her ass and then you won't have to worry about getting her pregnant.

LOL

Shocking...but absolutely brilliant timing.

OP I'm pretty sure your absolutely sorted. Don't worry son, keep doin' what you doin'

JCDUB

irishbird wrote: »

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

-1

irishbird

irishbird wrote: »

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

Whether or not you are in love with the person , pregnancy is still a major issue whether your 20 ,30 or 40
It is still a strain on the relationship if not planned so therefore always take proper precautions

Nevyn

What is with the stuoid myth that if you have anal sex then the female won't get pregnant ?
Really it shows that those who make such comments have never done such a thing or if they did they don't care what happens after they cum.

Sperm will seep out of the anus (and if a comdom is used and it is not the right type, not all condoms are up to the rigors of anal sex it will be likely to break. ) and is perfectly capable of swiming in the moisture present to work it's way into the vagina and on up into the fillopian tubes.

Marksie

cheesedude wrote: »

LOL

Shocking...but absolutely brilliant timing.

OP I'm pretty sure your absolutely sorted. Don't worry son, keep doin' what you doin'

Pity you thought so, they got banned for it.
Keep it on topic.

Mazeire

irishbird wrote: »

Why not just stop sleeping around and wait for a girl you love and then it wont be such an issue ?

Thats really sweet.
Now back in the real world, inhabited by us grubby mortals, Just be careful. bTheres nothing wrong with sex being fun between two consenting adults as long as you are being responsible and using protection. You do sound like you are doing that to a degree, but the type you are using isn't working out for you so you need to shop around.