Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

Is this ok?

  • 28-01-2008 8:36pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    Just a quick question on something that has been on my mind. I've been with my gf for a few months now and things are good.
    She has this friend whose brother she went out with for a few months a couple of years back, the only time she sees or talks to this ex is when she calls to her friends place which is rare enough.
    The thing is, when they greet each other they usually share a peck on the lips. Is this a normal thing to do with an ex and should I be concerned of am I over-thinking things?
    The ex greets all of his female friends this way, it's just the way his family is.

    Thanks for any opinions :)
    We're both in our 20s by the way.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    Dub219 wrote: »
    The ex greets all of his female friends this way, it's just the way his family is.
    .


    No special treatment. yeah everythings fine, dont worry about it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Sure why not. Sounds a bit gay in my opinion but if they all are happy with it that's grand so.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Some people do some people don't.

    I have friends who are not ex's that I will greet with a kiss on the lips, different peole have different boundaries and if it is a problem for you then talk to her about it.

    It prolly to her is not a big deal or a boundary at all or even sexual but you need to sort out how you feel about and if needs be raise it with her.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    I greet freinds of both sexes with a great big melting hug


Advertisement