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Going Nowhere

  • 21-01-2008 11:10pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay the problem is...Im 21,Know lots of people,people generally like me,Im life and soul type of person in the pub,making people laugh and enjoy themselvers anyway i digress,I work in a ****ty enough job, live at home and the last 5 years have been mistake after mistake every relationship ive had ive screwed up and i feel awful about these and alot of things ive done (i never cheated) Its just like everything im about and do is fake,
    like ive never accomplished anything and i really bothers me because i think about times ive hurt people and it really gets to me because i know im not the worst.
    it really plays on me sometimes, i just wonder too much, is there anyone for me?
    Where will my life go, the inevitable fate that the people i care about will leave.
    Like this sound ridiclous but i just feel like im existing not living.


Comments

  • #2
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    You robbed a bank?

    You're young yet. You cant let your mistakes eat you up forever. We learn from them and we move on. We make mistakes. Lots of them. I just made another big one not only 2 hours ago - I mean seriously, if I let all my mistakes haunt me I'd have given up long ago. You have to take each thing one at a time. Dont let it punish you again and again: let the mistake get its lick in and be done with it. So you did x y and z: its done now. Whats for supper?

    As for the job - have you considered college? Still of a ripe age to repeat the LC (if need be) and get a course. You must have some idea of where you would like to go and what you would like to do. Write your wants needs and desires down in a list and adress them in turn.


  • #3
    ballymary
    Closed Accounts Posts: 28 ✭ballymary


    why is it inevitable that the people you care about will leave?? think about how many other people are in your situation and arent even aware of it...if you dont like your job-leave it-go do a course, go travelling, get a new job, leave home-maybe you dont have money cos you are spending it on drink?? if you are only 21, id be more worried if you were in a serious long term relationship than messing up other ones in your teens...move onwards and upwards-its a new year-make it a big one for yourself


  • #4
    Mr. Incognito
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito


    you're only 21. i'll swap you.


  • #5
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Please listen to same and learn OP

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFRuLFR91e4

    Why are you pondering on stuff that has or has not happened? Go out and live your life. You hate your job. Change then. Is there someone for you? There's one for everyone in the audience sweetheart. Where will your life go? F8ck only knows but I think if you are proactive it helps rather than stewing in misery tbh.


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