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A need to vent

  • 20-01-2008 1:58am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Going unregistered for this but I think it'll be apparent who I am soon so anyone that works it out please don't say it on here:

    Last week my (now) ex's child needed open heart surgury, We were still together (or at least so I thought) so I was bouncing between going to work then to the hospital then home but I never got home before 10/11. The night of the day of the op she decided she wanted to go home too so she got pissed and for no reason abused me down to the ground, I left because it was too much to take that all night and since then I've found out that all that time, when I was going home to get up for work the next morning, she was using that time to get with a guy that was in there too with his kid(who she is now dating), I feel so destroyed right now. She's mailing me going on about how happy they both are and stuff and how much better he is to be with than me and it's killing me, I did nothing to deserve this, if anything I went out of my way for her and her kids and I'm finding this so hard to deal with because I do really love her kids.

    :(


Comments

  • Administrators, Business & Finance Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,957 Admin ✭✭✭✭✭Toots


    Hey OP, I think I might know who you are. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better but there isn't. You don't deserve this kind of treatment. From reading your other threads it's obvious how much you care about the kids. I hope things get better for you, I really do. I know this post isn't going to make things any different, but just wanted to let you know I'm thinkin about u. Take care xo


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,331 ✭✭✭✭bronte


    That is really rough op, I'm sorry.
    It isn't fair for her to be mailing you the details of what she's up to right now.
    You'd be better deleting these as you get them because you'll only be torturing yourself.
    Stress can make people behave oddly.
    Please take it easy on yourself.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Politics Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 12,110 CMod ✭✭✭✭Dizzyblonde


    I'm so sorry you're going through this, and after all the stress and worry too.
    Take care.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 994 ✭✭✭Carrigart Exile


    what kind of women thinks of her urges at a time like that; look back on this as a very very lucky escape.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,525 ✭✭✭vorbis


    exactly think of this as a very very very lucky escape from an absolute b1tch. People like her are poison. They'll only destroy your life.


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