Heterosexual more comf around men

coverband

Hi

I'm as hetero as they come however I move from emotional relationship with men to emotional relationship with men. Think I;m afraid of emo wit woman....dunno..!#!#!

Advice appreciated

Wibbs

Define emotional relationship for a start.

In any case women are people too you know. I know it sounds mad an all.

coverband

Man its true what they said about boards! You guys are the best getting back with concern. Emotional relationship: you know a friend someone you have a laugh with. See women as objects (hope u don't think i'm a ba*tard!) most of time

Wibbs

Come back with either more sense, detail and/or explanation or this gets locked.

Stark

coverband wrote: »

Man its true what they said about boards! You guys are the best getting back with concern. Emotional relationship: you know a friend someone you have a laugh with. See women as objects (hope u don't think i'm a ba*tard!) most of time

It sounds like you're young and just need to develop emotional maturity.

Have you ever tried talking to a girl you liked and seeing if something develops? And by talking, I don't mean "get your coat, you've pulled".

Overheal

are we talking about those drunken discussions where two men will basically bleed their hearts out to each other? I'm confused.

Its understandable if thats the case. Easy to approach the same sex about problems and issues than it is the opposite - approaching the opposite we frequently get wires crossed; one develops attraction for the other; etc.

Doesn't sound uncommon to me. Guys will do guy talk. Girls will do girl talk. Inter-sexual discussion will usually lead to broken hearts or inter-sex There can be a stigma about sharing your feelings with a girl I suppose because you often wonder if someone will get the wrong impression: it implies a certain kind of intimacy. But if you have a girlfriend for instance and you aren't sharing your feelings than you would want to learn quick. Its one thing not to share feelings with your femFriends but quite another to keep them from your significant other.

seriously though clarify the problem/point of this thread please.

Wibbs

Overheal, gave as good an answer as is possible with the lack of info available. If you want more than that, open another thread, with more background and what you actually want to know.