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guilty conscience

louiscollins · 2008-01-15 22:40:52

hello all long story but basically been with my girl for 2 yrs. i love her to bits but cheated on her last weekend. i was out with a few mates and went back to one of the lads houses where loads of hot birds came in to join us. anyway they were all rly slutty, and all the lads were scoring. then it was just me and this one…

15-01-2008 10:40pm

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louiscollins

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hello all
long story but basically been with my girl for 2 yrs.
i love her to bits but cheated on her last weekend. i was out with a few mates and went back to one of the lads houses where loads of hot birds came in to join us. anyway they were all rly slutty, and all the lads were scoring.
then it was just me and this one girl left ont he couch while my other mates were upstairs. i was quite pissed but wasnt gonna do anything with this girl. she was hot but i love my gf. anyway she sat on my knee and i got up and walked around the room. when i turned around she was standing in her underwear and she was rite in front of me. then she kissed me and i kissed her bak and one thing led to another and we were having sex.... i felt awful the whole time tho,... didnt come or anythiong...

what now tho? do i tell my gf? or keep it to myself? im afraid she might find out and it wud be the end of us if she did. . this girl i slept with doesnt know i have a gf and cud find me on bebo ....

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#2 15-01-2008 10:45pm

DawnMc

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Make your page private.

Will it make your girlfriend feel better if you tell her? If you genuinely feel very bad and are not having doubts about your relationship with your girlfriend and if there is absolutely no hope of her ever finding out, don't tell her.

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#3 15-01-2008 10:52pm

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louiscollins wrote: »

hello all
long story but basically been with my girl for 2 yrs.
i love her to bits but cheated on her last weekend. i was out with a few mates and went back to one of the lads houses where loads of hot birds came in to join us. anyway they were all rly slutty, and all the lads were scoring.
then it was just me and this one girl left ont he couch while my other mates were upstairs. i was quite pissed but wasnt gonna do anything with this girl. she was hot but i love my gf. anyway she sat on my knee and i got up and walked around the room. when i turned around she was standing in her underwear and she was rite in front of me. then she kissed me and i kissed her bak and one thing led to another and we were having sex.... i felt awful the whole time tho,... didnt come or anythiong...

what now tho? do i tell my gf? or keep it to myself? im afraid she might find out and it wud be the end of us if she did. . this girl i slept with doesnt know i have a gf and cud find me on bebo ....

You certainly are a poster child for chastity and virtue.:rolleyes:

Well if this girl was as slutty as you say she was, she probably won't have any qualms about telling your girlfriend. I'd come clean to your gf tbh, she deserves to know the truth. You seem to be blaming all this on alcohol and 'slutty' girls, BS, this is your mess, you'll have to deal with the consequences. Also, for your gf's sake, you should get yourself checked before having sex with her again, it's bad enough she's got a cheating bf to deal with without having to deal with an STI too.:mad:

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#4 15-01-2008 11:01pm

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Hi louiscollins or is it lauren F?

Your previous thread on the subject fo your g/friend indicated you were tired of her clinginess.

http://boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055165035&highlight=louiscollins

Assuming you are not the avatar of the aforesaid Lauren F. Then there is more wrong in your relationship that expected

edit: i have checked other posts and you habitually use text speak. I recommend you check the charter as regards the repeated use of textspeak in threads and posts

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#5 15-01-2008 11:16pm

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Your previous post suggests that there was many things in the two yr relationship that you were not happy about you quoted ''she can't understand that i need my space. time with the lads! she has a big problem with me going out to a bar/club drinking with the lads. its like a big insecure problem she has. ''why dont u invite me to come along''... COS I NEED A BREAK!! any ideas how to get around this one?''

I really have to ask myself why this girl is so insecure..... you decide to head out with the lads and have 'sex' with another woman. Excuse me if i am out of line but maybe behaviour such as the one you display contributed to your girlfriends clinginess etc.

I suggest you get out of this relationship... if you really love this girl then she shouldnt have to put up with behavour such as this. I cant and wont say if i would tell your gf that you cheated etc as i'm not in your shoes. However i feel its important to get tested for possible sti's etc...

And your girlfriend too if you have slept with her since!

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