dilemma

LegacyUser

Ok here goes, i think im in love. but its complicated.

I was with this girl before christmas but wasnt really bothered was just something to do really. She then got back with an ex over christmas and i went off and did my thing whatever usual stuff, but i wanted her maybe because i couldnt have her im not sure

We met up during this time and she told me she loved me. Threw me completely. then we stopped talkin again, now were back talkin, she has finished with the other guy and i think we might be gettin something going.

hes the snag, My ex girlfriend was a stunner, i mean absolutely perfect. Now this new girl is different, not ugly or anything just not in the same league, it doesnt bother me one bit, but my m8s give me stick, still i dont care really. but ive got all these weird feelings that i havent felt since i was with my ex (3 years together)

Is it love or am i just happy to succeeed in getting what i wanted.

Cathmandooo

Dont mind what 'your mates' say! If they're your mates they'll be happy that you're happy.

Sounds like its way too early to know if you're in love with her! Give it time and I'm sure you'll find out for yourself.

Liam Byrne

You say she was "absolutely perfect", but think for a sec - it's off for a reason; so how does the word "perfect" apply then ?

Run with it and see......

Vaio

What age are you?

biko

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/whatislove/What_is_Love_Am_I_In_Love.htm
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-You-Are-in-Love

Clare Bear

Ignore what your mates say, I got a few comments like that from my friends about my ex-he's not your usual type, you could do better blah blah blah and it really pissed me off cause when you like someone they should be happy for you. So first off ignore them and secondly really think about how you feel about this girl, don't break her heart but if you think you only want her back because you want what you couldn't have at one stage don't do that to her. Your ex was a stunner, big deal....new girl isn't your ex and she is a completely different person....plus your ex obviously wasn't perfect if you're not still together. Looks aren't everything. Yeah you need an attraction but just a pretty face and some arm candy isn't going to be all you need.

Best of luck, do what you feel is right.

LegacyUser

im 24

AnonoBoy

Ok - I'm gonna bite.

First off - why do your mates care what your girlfriend looks like? And why would you carer what they think?

As for how you're feeling - it could be a combination of getting what you were after and starting to fall for the girl. It's probably a bit too early to call it love but when you start getting weird feelings in your stomach when you're with her you know it's a bit more than the normal anyway.

Back to the 'you could do better'..... I'd just like to add that I fall into that category myself. I've been with girls that are stunning, way out of my league looks-wise, and their friends have told them that they could do better but they didn't care because they liked me and how I made them feel. So really - do you care what your mates think about your girlfriend's looks if you're happy with her.