Trust issues in relationship

LegacyUser

The situation described in the post below (boyfriend has no trust) sounds familiar. I sound like that guy (its not me, but I recognise the behavior)

I have no reason not to trust my girlfriend, when we got together we were both very open about our histories, she has cheated in past relationships, I havent had as mush experience as her when it comes to relationships. We spend every night together, and we love each other very much, of that I am sure. I just cant seem to let go and trust her, I worry constantly about who she may be texting, where she is when she stays out all night.

My question is, how do I work this out, I dont want to feel this way. We had a big argument earlier today, she told me she is going out tonight and promised she would be home later to talk. I know already she wont be home, and Im sitting here worried sick about her.

Is there a future in this relationship - can trust issues be overcome?

simona

i guess if you never knew about her previous cheating, you wouldnt be worried sick at the moment.
so that makes matters worse because you are sitting there thinking
i cant really advise much because the time will show how strong the relationship is
you mentioned that there is big LOVE.then stop worrying and talk with her openly.that helps.
good luck

LegacyUser

trustproblem wrote: »

I have no reason not to trust my girlfriend, when we got together we were both very open about our histories, she has cheated in past relationships, I havent had as mush experience as her when it comes to relationships. We spend every night together, and we love each other very much, of that I am sure. I just cant seem to let go and trust her, I worry constantly about who she may be texting, where she is when she stays out all night

My girlfriend has more experance than me. She cheated on her last boyfriend many times but she had a good reason to which i believe but i still cant get rid of the feelings... cheating is the worst thing, id never do it and part of me is still in disbelief that she could have done it. i know she would never do it to me so why cant i get rid of these feelings?? she has not given me any reason to doubt her but whenever she goes out without me i am always worrying and cant sleep, maybe cause she can sometimes drink a lot. Sometimes she goes out with the person that she cheated on her ex with (in a group)

IRISH RAIL

what do you mean when you say she wont be home do you live together??
if so and she doesnt come home lock the door (not literally) maybe show her the door sounds to me like theres something more than meets the eye here