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  • 03-01-2008 11:00am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Im looking for some help here. Im with my boyfriend for nearly a year and for the last few weeks I'm finding it very hard to get in the mood for sex. I recently had some problems so I couldnt have sex for a few weeks and I think i had got used to this fact and now I am having trouble getting back to normal.

    Any help would be great, thanks!


Comments

  • #2
    monaminute
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8 ✭monaminute


    The mind is a wonderful thing. Maybe the fact that you can't get in the mood is your bodies way of saying you're not ready yet. Don't put yourself under pressure. It'll sort itself out in time. Until then work back up to it and enjoy doing other things. its not all bout the sex


  • #3
    sunnyjim
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭sunnyjim


    And if he's an anyway decent bloke, he won't pressure you, do don't get yourself in a heap.


  • #4
    K_P
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 577 ✭✭✭K_P


    If you're on the pill, that can massively affect your drive. So maybe consider changing your pill if this applies to you.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hes a sweetheart and is not putting pressure on me he just keeps trying to get me in the mood and just nothing is working, Ive recently come off the pill about 2 months ago after nearly 7 years on it so thats probably not helping me. Thanks for the replies!


  • #6
    Lola123
    Closed Accounts Posts: 582 ✭✭✭Lola123


    K_P wrote: »
    If you're on the pill, that can massively affect your drive. So maybe consider changing your pill if this applies to you.


    +1

    Also, maybe you could book a weekend away for you and your boyf. Even a night in a b&b. Sometimes you need a change of scenery to liven things up a bit. Be more affectionate with your bf too....this will make you feel more like getting intimate.


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