Confussed

LegacyUser

K I've a small biggish problem! I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 months ago, a very disturbing break up which was entirely my fault. I felt we argued too much caused my lack of commitment, we lived about 2 hrs from each other and had different lives during the week but I done my best to see her and went home as often as I could. However my time for friends and family and "my stuff" seemed to be dwindling which may sound selfish. Anyway I kissed another girl a month before breaking up,started txting,met for a drink, the odd kiss, (no more) and now am continually seeing her following the break up. We have great fun but I can't get my ex outta my head, there is loads I miss about her. I've txt to apologise numerous times and not to my amazement have recieved no replies. I want to explain what happened(bit too late for that some mite say). Is it that I am selfish and just want self assurance so that I can get on with my life or do I want her back. If we did there would be the whole issue of her family resenting me for what I've done. Should I just forget about her? Work at the new relationship? Or just take time out to see exactly what I want? Who know s what the consequences will be if I do that!!
Thanks

Lola123

If you want to show ur ex that ur sorry then I don't see how going out with someone else is going to show that!!
You don't seem to know what you want imo....take some time out. Ur being unfair to both of these girls, and yourself.

CoffeeAndTV

You sound selfish to me. Don't get in contact with the poor girl, she clearly doesn't want to talk to you and xmas can be an emotional rollercoaster as it is.

Does the new gf know that you were seeing another girl when you kissed her first?