Should I make a move?

LegacyUser

Started seeing a lovely guy in September. Things heated up very quickly and we started spending all weekend together plus 2 nights during the week. I know this was too much too soon. He was having a few problems and we had a falling out, but still kinda kept in touch.
A few weeks later my cousin died and he was very supportive. Ending up sleeping together again.
2 weeks went by when we hadn’t seen each other, but texted quite a bit and I popped in to see him. He suggested we get a few bottles of wine and have a night in, and then he made a move on me. Stayed the night but nothing else happened. A few days later we had a chat and it was clear we were still in the friends zone which I was disappointed about especially as he had made the move on me. Anyway I had a lot going on with work, and a few other things.
I then found out he had started to see someone else. I was upset but figured we’d agreed on being friends so I’d concentrate on that.
Over the past three weeks we’ve been spending lots of time together, he texts every morning and calls throughout the day. He has been borrowing my car for a few days as his is broken, his apartment is close to where I work so I’ve been staying over, plus his mum has been in hospital and I’ve brought him up to see her a few times. It was my birthday at the weekend and he bought me 3 gorgeous presents and brought me out for lunch.
On Sunday I asked him about the other girl and he said they weren’t seeing each other anymore because of me.

I’m crazy about him and love spending time with him. He is incredibly supportive of me, and I’ve also been able to help him out with a few issues he had.
Tomorrow I’m staying over in his apartment. I’m going to go over after work, but he wont be home for a few hours later. So in my head I’m thinking about this great seduction plan! Maybe cook him dinner, be all dolled up and make it obvious I want more then friendship with him – or should I just talk to him? Any advice?

Colonel_McCoy

Go for it lay it all out................ask for a commiment...........u will always regret it if u dont

muppetkiller

He's a guy lol we don't need to be seduced if we like you
He sounds like he's very keen but you can never be sure at this time of year.
So just simply ask him are you guys seeing each other. Tell him you love his company and think you get on great but you don't want to be wasting your time on him if he's only in it for his booty call.

LegacyUser

Nothing has happened between us in over a month, havent kissed, etc. So he isn't in to for a booty call. I just don't know if we're just friends!!

k-a-t-e

Talk to him - if you try and seduce him he might think you're just up for sex and be put off - he seems to like you, A LOT!