holidays

LegacyUser

basically, me and a group of mates want to go away during the summer on a lads trip away.respective girlfriends are happy enough about it so we want to go book as soon as possible.the only problem is that we have one friend who has a reputation for being a complete pr1ck.we went on holidays with him last year and he spent the whole time screaming abuse at random people(a lot of it was racial abuse) and we're not sure if we want him to come with us this time, in fact we're pretty sure we dont want him to go.we know we'd all have a better time without him.

my question is this: is there any easy way of telling him to f*ck off and that we dont want him to go??

togster

Jesus just tell him you don't want him to go. what age are you? If hes a pr!ck hes a pr!ck and if you associate yourselves with him then your all viewed as pr!cks.

Cactus Col

Or just lie, and say you're all going on a stag for a mutual friend of everyone except him.

af_thefragile

I think the best way is to tell him you guys don't want him to come on the trip cuz everytime you've gone somewhere with him, he's been a complete prick and has let you all down spoiling the whole trip. You really don't wan't this trip to be spoilt because of him being a prick again on the trip so you'ld rather go without him and enjoy the vacation!

Just say it straight to him so even he realises how he has been behaving lately and does something bout it!

Lola123

af_thefragile wrote: »

I think the best way is to tell him you guys don't want him to come on the trip cuz everytime you've gone somewhere with him, he's been a complete prick and has let you all down spoiling the whole trip. You really don't wan't this trip to be spoilt because of him being a prick again on the trip so you'ld rather go without him and enjoy the vacation!

Just say it straight to him so even he realises how he has been behaving lately and does something bout it!

+1. At least this way, he might see the error of his ways!

tbh

+2. What is it about this guy that means he doesn't deserve to be set straight? By not condeming his behaviour, you're condoing it.

k-a-t-e

+3 tell him he ain't coming and tell him why.

Between humans many things can be forgiven - racism is not one of them.

Lollipops23

why are you mates with someone like this??if a friend of mine sceamed racial abuse at a person i would drop them like a hot cake, no matter how "sound" they were otherwise. You'd be well within your rights to tell him to shag off till he became a better human being, and why you havn't done this already is a complete mystery to me.

Beruthiel

unreghol wrote: »

is there any easy way of telling him to f*ck off and that we dont want him to go??

Book the holiday without him. If he asks why, tell him the truth.