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High sex drive

  • 11-12-2007 3:13pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I'm starting to think ive a beyond normal sex drive.. My girlfriend is willing to have sex once a day, once every two days sometimes but that's not enough for me. I'd like it at least twice a day. Is my sex drive over the top?

    If im horny and she isn't she'll give me a handjob or something but it feels like i have to ask for it and i hate when it doesn't just naturally happen between us. I love her to bits and shes perfect in every way, beautiful, funny, kind etc

    Anyone else in the same position?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,260 ✭✭✭jdivision


    You're normal, in fact a lot of guys would like it more often per day than you would.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,817 ✭✭✭✭po0k


    Sometimes it's better to beg forgiveness later than to ask permission first ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,700 ✭✭✭celt262


    If ur really bad just fire one off yourself it works for me !


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 432 ✭✭IamBeowulf


    Have her asking for it. Show her lots of attention talking and complimenting and holding but let her make the first move. She'll soon be your sex slave:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,300 ✭✭✭McSween


    i fire one off way too often, how can i stop :eek:


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭k-a-t-e


    McSween wrote: »
    i fire one off way too often, how can i stop :eek:

    Get a woman :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,300 ✭✭✭McSween


    working on it!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,017 ✭✭✭Bendihorse


    IamBeowulf wrote: »
    Have her asking for it. Show her lots of attention talking and complimenting and holding but let her make the first move. She'll soon be your sex slave:)

    So True...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    **** more often and let her see you doing it - should prove a turn-on.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18 Megatron091


    Overheal wrote: »
    **** more often and let her see you doing it - should prove a turn-on.

    Depends on who he is ****!!!:)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,706 ✭✭✭craichoe


    Get a Vibrator

    A. He'll get jealous of the Vibrator, it may start a competition
    B. You get satisfaction


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,523 ✭✭✭ApeXaviour


    craichoe wrote: »
    Get a Vibrator

    A. He'll get jealous of the Vibrator, it may start a competition
    B. You get satisfaction
    lol... did you even read the original post?


  • Moderators, Regional East Moderators Posts: 21,504 Mod ✭✭✭✭Agent Smith


    ApeXaviour wrote: »
    lol... did you even read the original post?

    Some men Find pleasure from Vibrators.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22 drand


    Next time your girlfriend is in the mood for sex, say, "I can't, I've already smashed seven out today."

    That should do the trick


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,706 ✭✭✭craichoe


    ApeXaviour wrote: »
    lol... did you even read the original post?

    hahahahha

    I could pretend I did and tell him to jam it up his arse :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,044 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    craichoe banned for a week for off topic and unhelpful posting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,758 ✭✭✭Stercus Accidit


    Hold off sex for awhile, so she is the one looking for it, she may understand how its feels when you need some.

    Or she will start to want it more and more and you end up like me, being pestered for it.

    I'm just sooo coool!

    Only messing but the aul' hold it off til shes the one looking for it could work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    yeah have to agree it might be hard but give her the cold shoulder now and then too ;)

    dont OVERdo it though.. she'll think youre cheating :p


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 18,966 ✭✭✭✭syklops


    OP, your completely normal. Personally I would like it about 3 times aday, just usually i dont have the energy, and satisfying myself is not very interesting. Think about getting a fleshlight. If your like me, you have to cum when you want to or you wont be able to concentrate on work/your pint/the game/whatever.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,644 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    SyxPak wrote: »
    Sometimes it's better to beg forgiveness later than to ask permission first ;)
    Oh, banned.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 829 ✭✭✭McGinty


    Hi Op

    I can understand things from your girlfriend's perspective in that her drive is not as high as yours, and having sex everyday is pretty damn good, but everyday can get tiresome if you don't match the drive, which is why she doesn't make a move on you, she doesn't get the time. Personally I suggest the two of you doing intimate stuff but take the focus away from full sex and see how she responds, it could be possible you are equating intimacy with penetrative sex, I know you think that may sound mad, but do consider that, having full sex every single day or more than once can get tiresome for some women, I know I am one of them, so you both need to find a way that suits each of you.


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