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Unable to rise to the occasion

  • 08-12-2007 12:01am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am a male virgin. I have fooled around with a few girls but nothing as far as sex. I ended up "nearly" having sex with a girl once but it didn't work out too well. First off, she wouldn't normally be the kind of girl I would even kiss but I was drunk and desperate... Anyways, the foreplay was fine, when however we moved to the bed, things got a bit worse...The end result being that during sex my erection softened. Obviously since then, this has been an issue of concern. What should I do?


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  • #2
    cormthechippy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 85 ✭✭cormthechippy


    well the drink can do that to you.. so that combined with nerves probably made the occasion a flop (excuse the pun). just take it easy mate, take it as it comes. try keep the drink out of it tho, it's a hoor for killin yer tool.


  • #3
    Pigman II
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,921 ✭✭✭✭Pigman II


    Pull a better looking burd next time. When you've got the brewers droop you're already fighting an uphill battle. Sharing the bed with a munter isn't going to make it any easier.


  • #4
    randylonghorn
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    OP, your post suggests 4 reasons all of which may have been a factor in getting a case of the flops ...
    l1mp wrote: »
    (1) virgin ... and probably nervous;
    (2) First off, she wouldn't normally be the kind of girl I would even kiss ... so no great attraction going on;
    (3) I was drunk ... another likely cause;
    (4) and desperate ... and therefore putting yourself under pressure.
    (1) Stop worrying about it. Once it has happened, you will look back and wonder why you were! And don't think you're the only one ... half the guys out there in the 16 - 21 (+ or -) age bracket who claim to have sledge-hammered their way though a score of girls are just re-naming their hand every night!

    (2) Probably a good idea to wait for someone who you at least like, and who turns you on ... I'm not someone who would argue that you should wait for "true love" (though I fully respect the views of those who do feel that way) but at least wait until it's someone you fancy!

    (3) As others have posted, too much alcohol >>> brewer's droop. One to calm the nerves, ok ... leave it at that.

    (4) The more pressure you put yourself under, the more you think about it, the more you worry that you will be "unable to rise to the occasion", the more likely that is to happen. Your primary sexual organ, believe it or not, is your brain, not your dick. Forget about it ... concentrate on foreplay (do a bit of research on it beforehand, the internet is handy that way ... and no, I DON'T mean watch pornos :p) ... ask her what she likes and follow her advice ... she'll love you! And hopefully you'll enjoy yourself too ... and you'll find that Mr. Happy will not only come out to play, but demand fairly insistently that he be let into the game! :D


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