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Question for the ladies

  • 05-12-2007 7:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok was with a girl at the weekend . We were in the pub and we got talkin it was just the two of us our friends were out listenin to the bands playin and smokin etc and neither of us smoke . we got on really well . I really like a lot of things about her . I thought it was a sure thing when we were geting on so well but later on in the night while it was just the 2 of us i tried to kiss her and she wasnt having any of just said like she had to go which she did . Would it b a bad thing if i een her in a few weeks and tried again or would that just pis her off ?
    Any advice apriciated


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  • #2
    pretty-in-pink
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,007 ✭✭✭pretty-in-pink


    It would pi$$ her off, if she wanted you, she would have kissed you back a little even, and told you she wanted to meet up again.


  • #3
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Yes, it would piss her off. She's clearly not interested if she pushed you away, sorry.


  • #4
    l3LoWnA
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 890 ✭✭✭l3LoWnA


    UnReG12 wrote: »
    ok was with a girl at the weekend . We were in the pub and we got talkin it was just the two of us our friends were out listenin to the bands playin and smokin etc and neither of us smoke . we got on really well . I really like a lot of things about her . I thought it was a sure thing when we were geting on so well but later on in the night while it was just the 2 of us i tried to kiss her and she wasnt having any of just said like she had to go which she did . Would it b a bad thing if i een her in a few weeks and tried again or would that just pis her off ?
    Any advice apriciated

    I'm sorry, but the only reasons she talked to you so much was because you were the only person left out of your groups of friends as the rest had gone smoking. People tend to get on well with one another when their out enjoying themselves, doesn't mean they're only going to talk to a man they want to kiss. Ok, maybe she likes you as a person, but if she pushed you away, accept that she doesn't want to kiss you and move on....

    Sorry


  • #5
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Unfortunately OP sounds like she just wasn't interested that way.
    Ye seemed to get on so maybe just try and be happy being friends.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I was in the same situation a few weeks ago (except I was incredibly drunk). Was chatting to this girl for ages in the club then mid conversation I decided to just throw the gob on her, not like me at all - but I was drunk and I said fúck it i'll chance me arm.

    Anyway nothing happened she muttered some excuse and I just walked off with my tail between my legs.

    Then I find out the next week she was asking my buddies about me and looking for my number ???

    I was thinking of making a quick apology to this girl when I see her again (probably bump into her again) and try to get chatting to her again .... is there any need for me to apologize ?


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  • #7
    Lockstep
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,031 ✭✭✭Lockstep


    She might be interested in the future, but yuo moved a bit too fast for her liking there.


  • #8
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,218 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    kickoutthejams wrote: »
    She might be interested in the future, but yuo moved a bit too fast for her liking there.
    Which is nearly as bad as moving too slow. In future in a case like that ask her for her number and suggest meeting again. If she's cool with that you're in a better position and know where you stand.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #9
    eirebhoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,013 ✭✭✭✭eirebhoy


    You should have been able to tell whether she was interested before you tried to kiss her. You don't go from sitting beside her talking to suddenly kissing. You should be all over each other before that. It's a lot less embarassing if she politely tells you to take your hand off her shoulder than it is going face to face with her cheek.


  • #10
    milli
    Closed Accounts Posts: 219 ✭✭milli


    Unreg893 wrote: »
    mid conversation I decided to just throw the gob on her...

    ....is there any need for me to apologize?

    Hmmm now why would you want to apologise after such gentlemanly behaviour?!

    OP, I have my doubts trying again will work but if you really like her why dont you just ask her out? Without trying to kiss her that is.


  • #11
    MissDefied
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭MissDefied


    Ah for feck sake! Don't put the lad off. We women are a bit hard to fathom by tomes. Maybe she just wasn't interested...but maybe there was an other reason. She was hardly so needy as to sit chatting just cos the others were off for a cigarette. Ask her out, and I hope it works :)


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