how to tell someone to go away

LegacyUser

how do you tell someone to go away without being rude??????

i keep getting myself in the suitation where i go out for the night, meet some
girl,get locked, and give my number to them, the problem is in sober light of day i usually have no interest in these girls, the last one was this weekend, within 24 hours im after
geting about 20 txt messages from her(im begining to think she's a stalker),
but without sounding really bad ive no interest in her, dont want to meet her again or even be friends with her, and before you say it no i didnt lead her on, she invited me back to her place, asked me for my number, i didnt tell her i really like her or any of that..
i know obviously the solution is stop drinking as much and stop giving my number to someone if ive no interest in them but after drink i cant help it,

so how do you tell someone that keeps txting you to basically stop and leave you alone
without just ignoring them and hope they eventually get the hint??

thanks

biko

Text back and say "sorry but I was really drunk and am really not interested in anything"?

DawnMc

Stop getting so drunk perhaps? Does it not freak you out that you are getting so drunk and ending up with girls you would not like in the light of day?

It's unfair to the girls and unfair to yourself

girlwitcurls

you sound like a complete tosser.tell her straight out that you have no interest put the poor girl outta her misery

Overheal

Yep - said this in the other thread: Just the cold, Unsweetened Truth.

Dr Lektroluv

Continue drinking - but get a 2nd sim card?

girlwitcurls

a mans way typical

estar

and dont ask for thier numbers
or give yours

just come straight out with it and say - can we be casual

and if they dont go for that at least you have been HONEST

rather than pretending you are all into them to
get what you want, and then ignoring them when it suits you

treat girls as you would like men to treat your sisters, female
relations or friends and you wont end up in trouble.

otherwise have the ball% to be a player STRAIGHT UP.

estar

troll

dudara

estar Please leave that decision to us mods. There is no need for you to clutter the thread with pointless posts.

dudara

MagicMarker

adviceplease wrote: »

how do you tell someone to go away without being rude??????

i keep getting myself in the suitation where i go out for the night, meet some
girl,get locked, and give my number to them, the problem is in sober light of day i usually have no interest in these girls, the last one was this weekend, within 24 hours im after
geting about 20 txt messages from her(im begining to think she's a stalker),
but without sounding really bad ive no interest in her, dont want to meet her again or even be friends with her, and before you say it no i didnt lead her on, she invited me back to her place, asked me for my number, i didnt tell her i really like her or any of that..
i know obviously the solution is stop drinking as much and stop giving my number to someone if ive no interest in them but after drink i cant help it,

so how do you tell someone that keeps txting you to basically stop and leave you alone
without just ignoring them and hope they eventually get the hint??

thanks

Having about growing up and taking responsibility for your own actions? ‘’I can’t help it’’ isn’t really any kind of excuse is it?

LegacyUser

girlwitcurls wrote: »

you sound like a complete tosser.tell her straight out that you have no interest put the poor girl outta her misery

look yes i know i sound like a complete dickhead, but honestly i dont mean to be one,
i usually spend the next few days regreting it.
anyway i want to let her know without making her feel like complete ****e so st least
i care some bit.


estar - no im not a troll

LegacyUser

biko wrote: »

Text back and say "sorry but I was really drunk and am really not interested in anything"?

bilko - cheers,that sounds fair enough


DawnMc - yes i know, as i said i usually spend the next few days feeling like
complete ****e and regret doing it, think i need to stop drinking so much when i go out.

fuzzywiggle

Sounds to me that you just give your number out repeatedly to get an ego boost. And as for you can't help it...yes you can. Just don't do it.

Anyway telling her the truth, that you were really drunk, would really hurt her feelings, she'd feel like a right mut! So i'd say just go with ''i'm not lookin for anything serious at min, enjoyin the single life!'' or something to that extent.