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Need A Little Advice

  • 02-12-2007 9:56pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Let me start with a little history, sorry if its boring. Around last March I started going out with a girl, lets call her A. She was the first person I had ever gone out with, I'm a youngin.

    While we were going out, we would hang out with other friends and just have some fun in general. One other girl in particular, lets call her B, was I thought really cool, had a great personality and we got along very well. Myself and A broke up around June, after four months, but during that time I couldn't help thinking about B, I really liked her for the reasons mentioned above.

    It is now December and to this date I am still talking,getting along with and constantly thinking about B. We don't have much time to hang out with school and the fact that we now kind of have seperate friends since I stopped going out with A.

    A and B are quite good friends and this is where I'm getting a little confused. I guess, not sure, that at 17 maybe myself and A didn't really want to go out with each other but just be good friends. Maybe we just didn't know it.

    Anyways, I feel like I need to at least let B know how I feel about her. Firstly, I don't know how A would feel if I did do that and I'm kind of scared of what reaction I would get from B.

    I really needed to tell someone. Its just I think I have strong feelings for B and I just don't know what to do as I'm pretty much a novice at this whole thing.

    Any advice as to what I could or should do???

    Thanks in advance. :)


Comments

  • #2
    MidnightQueen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,601 ✭✭✭MidnightQueen


    In my opinion if u have fallen for this girl (B) let her know exactly how u feel. Who cares if shes friends with (A) and what (A) would think if u told (B) how u feel. Besides u say (A) didnt really want to go out with u and just be friends so i dont see a problem as to why u are afraid to say anything. :) By the way u are only 17 and my advice is to be carefull about relationships. Even u have strong feelings for (B)......does she feel the same about u?


  • #3
    Reku
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,766 ✭✭✭Reku


    You say you now have separate friends since you stopped going out with A, as such I can only assume that you no longer really talk to A?
    If so I'd say let B know how you feel, then it's up to her if she feels it needs to be cleared with A or if she just wants to go ahead with it (assuming she likes you too).


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