last thing...

funloving

I only wanted to thank you all for your replies.

I am never going to post anymore here or anywhere else.
In so doing "I let down" somebody who is now mad at me

This the kind of love I receive...

Sorry for bothering you with my problem and my "selfishness"


ps:I am not even allowed to seek some comfort

Huggles

Funloving, did your boyfriend say those things?

Overheal

/:(

Try to consider how many more people you may have let down under different circumstances last night.

lezizi

Funloving, I think you are very brave for coming on here and opening up and admiting to how you are feeling, you are not being selfish, everyone needs people sometimes it is a lonely world. Dont stop posting because of what your boyfriend said at the end of the day you are number one look after yourself and you do what helps you.

SarahSassy

Funloving,

From your latest posts it seems to me that this relationship is not making you happy for a number of reasons... I would suggest to you that you consider taking a break from the pressure of the relationship to work on yourself..

If your bf is not giving you what you want in the relationship then you need to consider if its good for you... Only you can decide but I personally would be moving in that direction.

SS

spinandscribble

did your bf say those things or do you think its what he's thinking?

if he really said those things then you need to push him away. noone should ever speak to you like that and its only wearing away at your confidence. you said you had other fellas asking you out. clearly your desirable and will find someone again. only this time it'll be with someone who understands you.

you were NOT being selfish, you are ill. its not your fault your ill. it never could be.
theres a good reason why this forum exists.

Jimbo

funloving wrote: »

Sorry for bothering you with my problem and my "selfishness"

:eek:
funloving,

I hope that doesn't refer to my comment (which I since deleted). I was referring to the previous posters selfishness for complaining about your thread - his post seems to have been deleted by the mods..

funloving

funloving wrote: »

I only wanted to thank you all for your replies.

I am never going to post anymore here or anywhere else.
In so doing "I let down" somebody who is now mad at me

This the kind of love I receive...

Sorry for bothering you with my problem and my "selfishness"


ps:I am not even allowed to seek some comfort

Funloving,

Believe me when I say that you let nobody down last night.

We all can get very, very lonely and insecure at times - and there is nothing wrong with that, its part of what we are. There is also nothing wrong with reaching out for a bit of company and a bit of help.

If your boyfriend thinks that you have let him down, then he is the one with the problem, not you. You found yourself in a horrible situation, you did the right thing in looking out for help and support.

There are over a 1000 forums on this website, and there are many similar websites like this on the net. There is nothing at all wrong with partaking in these sites - especially in a situation like last night where you felt very, very low and needed company.

If you feel embarrassd, then create a new account and find forums about things that you like.
If your bf thinks this is wrong - ignore him.

We all need help and support at times, it is not selfish to come looking for it.

Nevyn

We all need help and support at times, it is not selfish to come looking for it.

Very true but there are limits to what an internet forum can and should do.

Honey you need help and support and posts on an internet forums are not as good as a real hug and some one to listen and hold you as you cry, be they friend, family or a professional.

Please find someone to talk to in person.