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ejaculating

  • 28-11-2007 11:43pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 476 ✭✭


    during intercourse i always ejaculate very early and its ruining our sex life.when i was in my 20`s i was fine . now mid 30`s . married. help!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    There was an issue like this yesterday.
    Slightly different but the advice in it is what you need.
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055190784


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,314 ✭✭✭Talliesin


    Firstly, has this happened suddenly or gradually? Sudden loss of ejaculation control can indicate something else being wrong, either purely physiologically or psychosomatically (the effect of stress upon your body).

    As to the problem itself, I'd suggest two different approaches. The first is to try start-stop masturbation; masturbate but stop until you lose erection when you are close to coming, then start again, and build up control of your ejaculation this way - try not to get discouraged if you do ejaculate, as this happening is part of what will help you gain better control if you are attentive when it happens.

    Secondly, reduce the amount of intercourse involved when you have sex. If the problem is mainly during intercourse as you say, then less intercourse in the mix will reduce the impact of the problem.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 476 ✭✭jntsnk


    Thanks for the suggestions


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 994 ✭✭✭Carrigart Exile


    jntsnk wrote: »
    during intercourse i always ejaculate very early and its ruining our sex life.when i was in my 20`s i was fine . now mid 30`s . married. help!

    could you make that phase 1 of a 2 phase sexual encounter


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 273 ✭✭Timmy_d


    i rem reading a reply from a girl saying there is some sort of cream you can get that will make you last longer,it was in a similar thread and her boyfriend swore by it lasting ages think it can be got in a health shop or equiv,anyone rem reading this? you may want to do a search on it...what kind i dont know :).....


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 346 ✭✭Shellie13


    Try doing other stuff...oral etc...

    Don't let ejacultion halt the entire sex session just take time, pleasure her and built back up to doing it again!


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