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Feel like I've lost my libido...

  • 26-11-2007 12:28pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So I've started seeing some one after being single for about 8 month. She's gorgeous and really funny too, we get on great. When we hooked up we hit it off that I spent every night after a date together; but she didn't want to have sex yet, she wanted to take things slowly which of course I agreed to.

    Last weekend she decided she was ready and I was too, or so I thought. when it came to doing the deed nothing happened, I managed a semi at best. I hadn't been drinking so I can't write it off as "brewers droop".


    The thing is I never had this problem with my last girlfriend, and I actually had a couple of one night stands since then. No problems whatsoever. But now with this girl I'm having trouble (had a better time the next morning, we tried again. It still wasn't great, things weren't 100%)

    I'm only in my early 20s, I dont understand what's going on. I really like the girl, and at the time i told her that i was "out of practice" and she was okay with it - i brought her to orgasm through other ways, but i'd really like to have full successful intercourse with her.

    Is it nerves?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hey Op, I had a similar situation to you, went out with a girl for 4 years broke up, had a couple of one night stands and things went fine. However went i started my next relationship things didnt go to hard... i just relaxed because your starting with a fresh pallette with the new girl.
    Take your time...


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