Took girl out on date...

LegacyUser

Hi all
ok basically I took a girl out on a date lastnight
I travelled from one end of the country to the other to meet up with her etc.
We have met up before so it wasnt a first date as such,

ok heres my rant..
I picked her up from her house, took her to dinner, half way through dinner she tells me she has to go see a mate in a pub, so we went along.
Now none of this was mentioned before the date at all..
I went to the pub anyway (wanting to spend some time alone with my girl) but I was basically used to get drinks (had I not put the foot down) and was expected to drop them home at the end of the night.
im psed off as not once did she offer to buy me a drink, or even say thanks for the meal either,
I wasnt feeling great after driving for so long to meet her and wanted to spend some quiet alone time with girl but the proceeded to head to the niteclub with her mates (and I think she wanted me to pay for her entrance - but i said i wasnt goin in)
She went in anyway, and I followed, in the club nothing much happened.
So I said i was going - she followed me but said she was staying there with her mate.
So I made tracks.. her mate texted me then at 3am saying they had aranged a meet up , but i thought we were on a date not a threesome.
I then texted date that I didnt want to meet up again as I was psed off.
Later on at 4am i get texted from the mate saying not to be taking it out on my date for not wanting to see her again,
They were waiting at a taxi rank probably pised off as i didnt drop them home.

anyway thats my rant - any suggestions on did i do the right thing ?
thks

supertramp

Yes you did, absolutely. Forget about her...

Petey2006

Take it as a lucky escape. If this is what she is like on a first date, imagine what she'd be like once she got comfortable with you and started taking for granted that you'll do things for her!

SarahSassy

Not a very nice girl!!! Her behaviour was ungrateful and totally out of order..... You did the right thing by leaving the pair of spongers..... I would not make contact with her but if she contacted me I would point out exactly why I left and how badly she had behaved.. Women like her give the rest of us a bad name....

AARRRGH

She sounds like an immature spa. Do yourself a favour and never see or talk to her again.

mikemac

Sponger, kick her to the kerb!

uoluol

What a wagon!!! She behaved appallingly, used you, and deserves no further contact from you. What a rude b**ch. Delete her number from your mobile and treat her with the contempt she deserves. Ignore her, and do not respond to any contact from either her or her pathetic mate.

There ARE better girls out there. Have fun finding them:)

Fast_Mover

She's some piece of work!!!
Course you did the right thing..

uoluol

uoluol wrote: »

What a wagon!!! She behaved appallingly, used you, and deserves no further contact from you. What a rude b**ch. Delete her number from your mobile and treat her with the contempt she deserves. Ignore her, and do not respond to any contact from either her or her pathetic mate.

There ARE better girls out there. Have fun finding them:)

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TheDriver

+1+1, ditch the cow sooner rather than later.

Spoony2

Ditch the witch.....

tritium

+1+1+1

Lucky escape as someone already mentioned. If she has that little respect for you at the start of the relationship then you probably don't want to be around for later on. Delete her details from your phone, don't have any contact and put it down to experience.

Lawless_Samurai

bang on dude! Ya did the right thing! :):D

gandalf

Delete her mobile number and forget about her.

Ruu_Old

You were dead right, forget about it. I'm sure you'll be wiser next time, good luck.

highlydebased

Agree witheveryone else.

Forget her.

People like her dont deserve the thought/effort

l3LoWnA

Absolutely agree with everyone elses responses. You can do so much better. This girl acted apallingly and rude in every way. Forget her - move on, find someone better because you definately deserve it!

bronte

Op she sounds quite rude and unappreciative.
Sorry you had to travel so far for the date.
Move on and find someone else who will treat you with respect.

Fanny Cradock

This could be a first whereby everybody agrees that the OP did the correct thing!

WildIrishRose

this girl gives us women a bad name.. We are not all like that. Hope you meet someone nice the next time, Good Luck.

Rb

The right thing would have been to offer them the lift and then drop them out in the middle of nowhere and drive off laughing with the window open.

Don't worry about it anyway, as with both sexes, some are just spastics and you're bound to encounter a few on the journey to finding the right person for you.

Reku

Does sound a lot like she would have been incredibly high maintanance if you'd stayed with her, so yup, I'd say you did the right thing, both in sparing yourself a future headache and also perhaps she'll get the message (doubtful) that she can't treat people like this.

Carrigart Exile

arabiannight wrote: »

Hi all
ok basically I took a girl out on a date lastnight
I travelled from one end of the country to the other to meet up with her etc.
We have met up before so it wasnt a first date as such,

ok heres my rant..
I picked her up from her house, took her to dinner, half way through dinner she tells me she has to go see a mate in a pub, so we went along.
Now none of this was mentioned before the date at all..
I went to the pub anyway (wanting to spend some time alone with my girl) but I was basically used to get drinks (had I not put the foot down) and was expected to drop them home at the end of the night.
im psed off as not once did she offer to buy me a drink, or even say thanks for the meal either,
I wasnt feeling great after driving for so long to meet her and wanted to spend some quiet alone time with girl but the proceeded to head to the niteclub with her mates (and I think she wanted me to pay for her entrance - but i said i wasnt goin in)
She went in anyway, and I followed, in the club nothing much happened.
So I said i was going - she followed me but said she was staying there with her mate.
So I made tracks.. her mate texted me then at 3am saying they had aranged a meet up , but i thought we were on a date not a threesome.
I then texted date that I didnt want to meet up again as I was psed off.
Later on at 4am i get texted from the mate saying not to be taking it out on my date for not wanting to see her again,
They were waiting at a taxi rank probably pised off as i didnt drop them home.

anyway thats my rant - any suggestions on did i do the right thing ?
thks

been there, you are being taken for a mug cut and run mate

Teddi

AS OF FROM NOW! dont be over thinking this anymore mate...

This would have me thinking over and over like a mad man too...but as everyone has mentioned...it looks like you dodged a bullet there.

Don't bother contacting her ungrateful ass....the only exception (if you even feel like it) taking her back on her hands and knees begging...(although she didnt sound like the type to do that)

Leave it be my friend..you had a lucky escape

Cathmandooo

Ah come on give the girl a break....only kidding what a shocker of a girl, be glad you saw her true colours so quick. Dont give up on women tho, we're not all like that!

K_P

I don't know what I'm more shocked at: this girl's behaviour or everyone agreeing for once!

You did the right thing and probably had a pretty lucky escape too. Don't even give her another thought.

mixervilla

You should ask her for her email address and forward on this thread, she wouldn't do it to anyone again if she had any decency in her plus it would be a little bit of revenge for you!

Mitch Connor

OP did the right thing.

However, does no one else have the feeling they read this exact post ages ago...