Erection Too Easily

LegacyUser

Slightly embarrassing when it happens; If I'm with my GF (We're in 1st year college, not very sexually experienced, haven't had sex yet) and she gets close to me I ALWAYS get a boner. LOL it seems so silly but it is highly embarrassing. I try to hide it by either wearing jeans (painful sometimes) or opting for the nip-and-tuck option.
But its ridiculous how easily it happens like if we're sitting down somewhere I couldn't let her hands go near my crotch or she'd know I was hard. Although it's not like she's shy when it comes to feeling me when we're alone, or discreet but thats another story!
I'm just looking for advice or guys/girls to tell their stories so I know how to feel about this. Thanks.

Reku

I wouldn't worry about it, as long as she knows that the physical stuff is not the only reason you're dating her she'll probably be a little flattered. Odds are in fact that she already knows, I know girls like to let on to be innocent and we like to believe that they are, but they're not completely blind to the world, if it happens as much as you imply, she's probably noticed. In fact maybe that's why she may be interested in letting her hands wander to your crotch, to see just how excited you are and perhaps do something about/with it.

If it's so obvious that others can see it though I can understand that it might be embarassing but I'm afraid that I can't give any useful advice there.:(

Khannie

My advice: It's perfectly natural for that to happen, especially if you haven't had some in a while. Masturbate more to control it.

passive

Cut it off?

Lux23

Ah I really like that!! Im sure she won't mind if her hands wander in that direction.

Beruthiel

passive wrote: »

Cut it off?

Consider this your warning.
B

Marksie

edited, ruthie there first

Spoony2

ok this is real logical and has worked since i strted kissing girl all the years ago insted of nip tocking it which you said which allso sound painfull

do a quick shuffell in your pockets and point it in the other direction up and let your boxer shorts elastic and jeans hold it in place , done it half my life as im very sexually charged so ive been told and ive walked around shoping center with a full hard on and not one person but my gf has known

ps man im 26 and i still get wood when i see my lady friend its good and very healthy

Aseth

My bf and I are together for over 2yrs now and it still happens. and it's really sweet

Talliesin

Really. Not a problem. Relax.

Agent J

Talliesin wrote: »

Really. Not a problem. Relax.

+1

Agent Smith

Khannie wrote: »

My advice: It's perfectly natural for that to happen, especially if you haven't had some in a while. Masturbate more to control it.

She should take it as a compliment

Canis Lupus

My GF just has to hold my hand sometimes and I'm off. I think she does it intentionally when we're in the shop etc.

Start getting worried when it doesn't happen and don't be embarressed that she might see or know etc. That's what it's all about.

cudman

well when ye havent had sex yet its all new and exciting being around her. when you start rideing her it wil happen less. its the anticipation more than anything that gets you going, wanting what you cant have (havent had).

highlydebased

Talliesin wrote: »

Really. Not a problem. Relax.

Agree.


Dunno if I would agree with masturbating more to help abate it. I have tried that, and yet I still become erect just as quick around a girl I find hottt..... :o

sunnyjim

My GF just has to hold my hand sometimes and I'm off. I think she does it intentionally when we're in the shop etc.

Bahahaha.... OP, Listen to this man!

LegacyUser

I often get told to "fix myself"!

Spoony2

Canis Lupus wrote: »

My GF just has to hold my hand sometimes and I'm off. I think she does it intentionally when we're in the shop etc.

i agree i recon girls just do it to have a gigge to them selves, but serously nothing to worry about man....