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is my bf only interested in sex?

  • 14-11-2007 1:02pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My bf has been acting a lil odd latley- im with him 2 years tho we dont live together- i see him in d morn b4 work n at lunch time too- however all he wants during that times sex. Yesterday at lunch he txt me sayn hed be down and i said"Im not shaggn u so dont bother" and he answered bk"Do you think i care all i want to do is be with you"

    Then the SECOND he came in he started groping and kising me

    is my bf only interested in sex?


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,395 ✭✭✭Marksie


    OP: if text speak continues in this thread i will lock it.
    It is without doubt the most annoying thing to read


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    I think your boyfriend just expresses his love for you through touching you.
    What's wrong with him wanting to have you?
    If you find him irritating then sit down and talk to him, come to a compromise.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    That's the best idea - said by biko -- sit your boyfriend down and talk.
    I'm a very touchy-feely person in relationships, always wanting to hold hands, caress them, give kisses, he may just be that sort.

    Or even try and organise things ye can do together, that can't result in sleeping together. Such as going out to a movie/ play bowling / going for a walk. So that ye get time to just be with each other.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,200 ✭✭✭muppetkiller


    Why don't you have breakfast/lunch out ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,976 ✭✭✭✭humanji


    If you don't want sex, then say. When he starts groping you tell him to stop. If he's only with you for sex, he'll leave.


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  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    Why don't you have breakfast/lunch out ?
    Very good plan!

    Your man is normal. Given a choice between sex or lunch I bet most men would skip lunch.:) And he thinks youre hot, which is another plus.

    The problem is a) you dont want to have sex at lunchtime etc and b)you worry thats all he wants you for. So if lunchtime is a no-no, tell him straight, but do tell him that later when youve both got time and can relax, youll have the time of your lives. Hell be grinning like a loon all afternoon. :)

    Does he pay attention to you when it doesnt involve getting a jump? Are you happy with the amount of time ye both spend together doing other stuff? If not, this is another thing you really need to sit down and tell him. He may not realise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Word of warning - no matter what your friends say, don't withhold sex from him "so he doesn't take me for granted". He'll just be confused, think that you're not interested in him any more, and may go find it elsewhere.

    As said, if you don't want sex, say no. Don't give it to him. Is there any reason why it annoys you so much?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    your aall getting confused

    i love having sex with him

    the problem is EVERY time he sees me its all he wants to do


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 890 ✭✭✭l3LoWnA


    I don't think your boyfriend is any way different to any sexed up and in-love person! I think it's great that he still wants to be all over you all of the time and steal these moments you have in private to do some smooching :D

    He still fancies you lots, that's great! Isn't it?!

    If your only worry is that he just wants sex I would stop worrying, however, if you are uncomfortable with having sex so often just say no the odd time.

    (Just re-read your orginal post and you've said that this is only "lately" he's been acting like this!? Was he not like this before? Was there a particular time that you noticed him wanting sex more often?! Hmmm.....As I'm not a man I don't know what makes them want sex more often at certain stages of their lives so I'll leave it to the boys to answer you and you can scratch all of the above - sorry) :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    OP: Stop making the rest of us jealous.;)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 296 ✭✭Thundercracker


    Marksie wrote: »
    It is without doubt the most annoying thing to read

    THANK YOU! Marksie, Im going to erect a statue in your honour


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 311 ✭✭auggie2k


    edjwehj wrote: »
    your aall getting confused

    i love having sex with him

    the problem is EVERY time he sees me its all he wants to do
    How often do you see him?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 662 ✭✭✭Liber8or


    THANK YOU! Marksie, Im going to erect a statue in your honour

    A subtle but somewhat apt statement for this Topic mate. :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Off topic and unhelpful posts will get you banned from this forum.
    Read the charter and abide by the rules while posting.
    Have a nice day
    Thaedydal.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,573 ✭✭✭✭kowloon


    Unless you're having to fend off the wee chappie with a stick i fail to see the problem.

    Cheer up, it could be worse



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭m83


    Don't go cold on him op. Maybe he just has a higher sex drive than you. You guys need to talk and find a compromise that works for both of you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,175 ✭✭✭angeldelight


    I wouldn't be too worried about it. I've been with my bf for 15 months and he's the same.... I love kissing him but every time he seems to want it to go further. If I point it out to him he apologises and we just cuddle or whatever. Sometimes I do let it annoy me but actually it's great that he still fancies me! I know he loves me to bits, he just has a high sex drive! Honestly I don't think you should worry, just tell him in a nicer way than that text you sent!


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