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What do I do re a girl

  • 10-11-2007 11:04pm
    #1
    justsomeguy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    So I met this girl I had known from a few years back this weekend. Had a few drinks, laugh etc. all good.

    Now, my friends are trying to set me up with her because they mistakenly assumed I want to score her (off topic but wtf actually is scoring?). They have let me know, through her friends, that she is really into me. She is really nice and a great laugh but I am not in the slightest attracted to her. I've let my friends know I am only interested in being friends.

    But I am not sure if I made the right decision. I am in my early twenties but have absolutely no experience with girls, never had a gf etc. I dont even know any girls. I'm thinking I COULD pursue it because we get on great and something could happen, but then again I'm not at all physically attracted to her. Then again it could be good, I'd get some experience on how relationships/the chase work. I don't know if I made the right choice. My friends seem to think that just because a girl was interested in me I would automatically reciprocate.


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  • #2
    sobriquet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 413 ✭✭sobriquet


    justsomeguy wrote: »
    I am not in the slightest attracted to her.
    justsomeguy wrote: »
    it could be good, I'd get some experience on how relationships/the chase work.
    If you all of a sudden found yourself interested (even very interested) in a girl you know who didn't find you in the least bit attractive... would you like for her to string you along, sorry I mean go out with you just because she'd like to get a bit of practice in, and have a boyfriend because... well, just because? I doubt it somehow.

    Find someone you are interested in and attracted to. Ask them out. Let her do the same with someone who'll actually fancy her back.


  • #3
    Caryatnid
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 555 ✭✭✭Caryatnid


    sobriquet wrote: »
    blah blah
    +1

    Oh and OP, by scoring, I would understand anything from kissing to having sex.


  • #4
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    Hey OP -- same as already said -- don't be with someone just so you can get experience, that's not fair on them (you said she really likes you). If it so happens ye all hang out together a few times & you become attracted to her, then that's different. For now though, if you're not interested, leave well enough alone.

    You'll find someone you like & you'll get experience then.
    Btw - scoring (my understanding of it) is french kissing (for want of a better explaination) although Caryatnid is correct in the sense of it *can* have different meanings depending on where you're from.


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