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What should I do?

  • 01-11-2007 1:33pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi... thought I'd give posting here a go and see if it brings any joy..
    Right so, my problem has to do with a guy at college with me. A while back we scored, and subsequently admitted to each other that we really liked each other. Nothing happened beyond that though (I’m not sure if it was due to mixed signals on my part or to the fact that we’re a very unlikely couple!). Now we see each other all the time, and it's obvious that there's something between us but he hasn’t acted on it (and I’m not much of a first-move maker). Should I give up on it as a lost cause or try and do something about it? It’s tricky because we’ve already had the whole ‘I like you’ conversation. Also we don’t really have friends in common so I can’t use them as channels of communication… so I’m not sure how to proceed!
    Thanks for any help and sorry if I sound like an idiot, this guy just confuses me :-P


Comments

  • #2
    TheDriver
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,689 ✭✭✭✭TheDriver


    meet him on the qt conveniently some time and ask " so you want to meet up sometime or what?" or something along those lines and get the answer you will either want or an answer that will close the situation. Easy as that!


  • #3
    kmick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,375 ✭✭✭kmick


    Get his phone number and text him. Although I think if he was really interested he would have made a move by now unless he is shy.


  • #4
    axer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,517 ✭✭✭axer


    Unreg207 wrote: »
    I’m not much of a first-move maker
    He might not be much of a first-move maker either. If you want to go out with him then just ask him. DONT TEXT HIM - if you want to do it by phone then ring him.


  • #5
    coolhandc
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 201 ✭✭coolhandc


    kmick wrote: »
    Get his phone number and text him. Although I think if he was really interested he would have made a move by now unless he is shy.

    just because he isnt pursuing her as much doesnt mean hes not interested or shy he might be head over heels with her and is just playing it cool.

    i agree though op you should text him or talk to him at least whats the worse that can go wrong?


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