My boyfriend....

smegs08

Hi i'm 19 years old and i am really concerned for boyfriend. He has been acting strange lately and the other day complained that he figured extremely low self esteem for somone of his age group. I am worrying if it is effecting his social and work life. I am quite sure that has to do with his body image. He is constantly telling me that he is incredibly ugly. I don't know what to say to him because i dont think he is ugly but when i tell him that he doesnt beleive me. Based purely on looks, what would you rate him out of 10? I'm not going to tell him this as I am currently looking for ways to help him. I just want to define the problem, that is, if he is actually ugly or it is all in his mind. Honest answers appreciated!!!

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Slutmonkey57b

I really wouldn't post pictures of someone up here without his consent - it identifies both him and you and if he's not happy with his looks he really won't like his photo being taken, never mind put up for the whole world to see (and potentially laugh at)

daisy25

Smegs08, take the photos down, it's pretty unfair to him to put them up without his consent.

Fwaggle

Yeah, you're very helpful :rolleyes: Posting pics of the fella on the web and asking people to mark him out of 10...WTF?! That'll really help with his self esteem.

Try and get him to talk to his GP or a therapist to get help and FFS remove those pics.

Mother of God....

togster

id give him a 5.

BTW what are you thinking?

Boston

The first step would be to accept his latent blatant homosexuality, that and to get more exercise / take a holiday.