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Peoples' thoughts on browsing for porn (when your in a relationship)

  • 23-10-2007 6:26pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I find my self browsing for porn on the net more and more the last couple of weeks.
    I'm happy with the relationship i have with my girlfriend. I used to think of it as being wrong to be looking at porn because im going out with someone, still feel a little guilty doing it but much less each time.

    Is it normal for guys to do this? Should she know about it?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,753 ✭✭✭comongethappy


    Yeah, it's quite normal for guys to do. It doesn't mean that you love your gf any less or find her less attractive, it's just something different and it's there when you need it! In regards to telling her... unless she asks or finds you, why bother? She could be sensitive and take it the wrong way. But if she does ask or find you, then be honest with her and reinforce how sexy you find her and how much you love her.


  • Posts: 0 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Giovanni Miniature Restaurant


    I find my self browsing for porn on the net more and more the last couple of weeks.
    I'm happy with the relationship i have with my girlfriend. I used to think of it as being wrong to be looking at porn because im going out with someone, still feel a little guilty doing it but much less each time.

    Is it normal for guys to do this? Should she know about it?

    I do it, my bf does it. It's normal. Don't worry
    try watching it with her sometime


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Don't let it take the place of your partner and you'll be fine, it is normal enough and happens. Find some that you could watch together as mentioned, could be fun.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,044 ✭✭✭gcgirl


    porn is ok just as long as it is not replacing having sex with your gf ! why have a hamburger when you can have the steak!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭m83


    I've started looking at it more since finding my girlfriend. Probably because i'm more sexually charged. But at the end of the day all I want is her and think nothing of the pornstars i see. She's knows i look at it too and thinks its completely normal and has no problem with it. It's a good thing, Catholic guilt has us Irish ruined if you ask me :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 89 ✭✭angelicsaz


    my boyfriend never metioned anything about porn and when i asked him he denied watching it, then while lookin for socks in his room i uncovered a whole 2 YES 2 drawers of it..... when i asked him about it he said he didnt tell me coz he thought id get mad... PLEASE.... now we watch it together and dare i say it... ya pick up some good moves from it... relax.. times are a changing.... 67% of women now watch porn... well thats the no that admit it anyways....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,875 ✭✭✭Seraphina


    i personally dont mind, but some women do

    however if she asks, DONT LIE ABOUT IT

    lying is possibly the WORST thing you can do, because if she's asking, its likely she's found out, and being lied to is not something women like. her reckoning will be, if he can lie to me about that, well he can lie to me about anything.....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,231 ✭✭✭Fad


    yeah alot o guys do watch a bit but if you find something like fisting em... be careful


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