Was keen, nothing since

hdal

Hey guys, was wondering if i could get an opinion on this...
I'm 23 and met a really cute guy in a club last fri night. He approached me & we chatted for the rest of the night & got along great. He took my number, gazed at me when i talked, walked me to get my taxi & held my hand on the way and got his mate to take pics of us together! He texted me whe i got home & said he'd love to see me again.
Since then he hasn't made any effort to text me. I texted him twice during the week & he replied, saying he still wants 2 meet me when i askd, but he never texts! Why do u think this is? He seemed so into me when i met him....I'm so disappointed as i liked him a lot

MagicMarker

Ring him and ask him.

axer

MagicMarker wrote: »

Ring him and ask him.

I'll second that. There could be a thousand reason why he never text back - none of them might involve not wanting to meet up with you again. Ring him and then you will get your answer there and then. End of story.

MagicMarker

Some people just don't like the whole texting thing either.

hdal

Thanks for the comments guys, feel better about it now! Ringing him sounds so scary though! Maybe he's just crap at texting.
My friends say he's a good looking guy so he might be a player but he seemed so genuine to me! might text him later, havta think of what to say first! I get really shy with guys sometimes xx

Oryx

Contact him* and ask him to meet you. Arrange a place and time. That gets past the 'id like to sometime....' bit. If he isnt keen, or puts you off, well perhaps leave him be, but if he agrees, great, have a nice time.

*phoning would be best, but if your really that nervous try it by text.

hdal

That's a good idea! Avoids putting it off for ages. Thanks everyone xx

KlondikePaddy

hdal wrote: »

That's a good idea! Avoids putting it off for ages. Thanks everyone xx

Maybe the guy is playing hard to get-could it be working? A serious point and question.

hdal

Could be working... I'm not sure what to do tho as guys always make a lot of effort with me, i'm not used to chasing & don't know what to do!! x

KlondikePaddy

hdal wrote: »

Could be working... I'm not sure what to do tho as guys always make a lot of effort with me, i'm not used to chasing & don't know what to do!! x

The chase can be exciting but at times also heartbreaking!;)

hdal

I just think it's weird that he seemed to really like me, now he hasn't seemed to be bothered texting. There's playing hard to get, then there's acting like u have no interest in someone! I don't really wanna let him go easily cos we clicked, had loads in common and got along great!
Maybe i'll text him tomorrow & ask how his weekend went then see if he wants to meet soon, and arrange something...

KlondikePaddy

As a guy-a turn off is a girl who chases so you have to get the balance right and avoid a broken heart. If hes not texting, its possible he isnt interested. Just being a realist although I hope it works out for you girl.

hdal

Don't worry i'm not a big chaser! :cool: Thanx for your advise! xx

KlondikePaddy

No probs-you are not a pm'er then-am i right?

hdal

A what now??