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to pursue or not

  • 18-10-2007 10:33pm
    #1
    willy wonka
    Closed Accounts Posts: 155 ✭✭


    There is a guy I like in my class. I am studying design and am in my final year. There is a big age gap (I'm 9 years older) but thats not the issue.
    We seem to be on the same level.
    My question is - should I pursue anything? He lives in a house with good friends of mine and I was planing on getting to know him a bit better.
    But is this kind of thing a bad idea? The whole class spends a lot of time together and there is a lot of group work so it might be awkward if thinks don't work out. What do you think?
    PS I'm a girl!


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  • #2
    MayMay
    Closed Accounts Posts: 848 ✭✭✭MayMay


    If it was me I'd go for it. No more humming and hawing, go for it, life's too short. You know you want to. Good luck! :D


  • #3
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    You're already thinking too long term :) youre already planning for awkward breakups :D

    Just hang out, see what happens. Events drift along as they should. It'll only get awkward if you jump his pants or something.

    If you think the right moment is there though: go right ahead ;)


  • #4
    Dord
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,817 ✭✭✭✭Dord


    Go for it! :)


  • #5
    strawberrybox
    Closed Accounts Posts: 53 ✭✭strawberrybox


    yeah why are you atuomatically asuming that you will break up and thinking that far forward, the relationship will be doomed from the start - just chill out and go with the flow you have a great opportunity to get to know him if he is sharing a house with your mate you have loads of times when you can "just drop by" just see how things are going you know if your getting the vibe off him or not and if you are then just go for it, if he clearly shows no interest in you at all just leave it alone and no harm done


  • #6
    clickerquicklic
    Closed Accounts Posts: 812 ✭✭✭clickerquicklic


    Hey there OP,

    Go for it OP, if hes good looking thats all that matters, nobody goes for personality these days its a myth. Ok personality only matters afterwards so go get him , he'll probably love the experience of an older woman so he can tell his mates what your like in bed. You go girl be the talk of the class just make sure your good in bed for him.


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  • #7
    willy wonka
    Closed Accounts Posts: 155 ✭✭willy wonka


    clickerquicklic wrote: »
    You go girl be the talk of the class just make sure your good in bed for him.
    ha! :D

    thanks everyone for the advice. I'm going to get to know him and see how things go. Ill keep you posted!


  • #8
    _blank_
    Closed Accounts Posts: 41,926 ✭✭✭✭_blank_


    Do it.

    When I was 21 I had a relationship with an older lady who was in my college class.

    Best thing ever.



    apart from my current gf...hi honey, i love you


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