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Virgin Problems

  • 14-10-2007 8:16pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok i'll make this short.

    Background -> Basically trying to do the business last night with a virgin. Shes Asian. I amn't.

    Problem -> One size does not fit all.

    Solution -> ???

    Further info -> I've being with virgins and asians before. This was much much worse. How much worse you ask ? Well I tried a finger and it was still like a bloody vice grips, or one of those Chinese finger trap things.

    To answer obvious questions, yes there was any amount of foreplay and yes she was as wet as a leaky tap.

    To be honest I'm fairly clueless on the next step.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,738 ✭✭✭mawk


    well the only sensible option is a penis reduction. im sure your gp will offer you all the info you need.


    more importantly, ask her if she has ever seen an ob/gyn.

    Vaginal septa is a not uncommon condition whereby a wall grows splitting the vagina into two seperate holes and is often unnoticed until sex. or failure there of.


    being a virgin its possible she didnt notice. if you could barely finger her then she needs a doctor. think how a baby would feel coming through.

    IANAD


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,314 ✭✭✭Talliesin


    I'd suspect vaginisimus before a vaginal septum; simply on the former being quite common and the latter quite rare.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,647 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    This board is not for medical advice, problemsprob can I suggest you both wander along to a GP.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24 seeshell


    just to make sure. ur sayin that she is real tight right?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    I posted this on boards before and got an awful bollicking for it, but it's true: Asian women have small vaginas (my ex was Asian.)

    A simple way of looking at this is Asian porn: the men have tiny penises, so it makes sense the women also have small vaginas.

    There could also be things like vaginisimus or plain ol' nerves going on.

    Really the only solution is to take things much slower. Perhaps start with a nice hot bath and a few drinks, with lots of foreplay etc. Basically make her mind and body as relaxed as possible...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 728 ✭✭✭pablo21


    dublindude wrote: »
    I posted this on boards before and got an awful bollicking for it, but it's true: Asian women have small vaginas (my ex was Asian.)

    A simple way of looking at this is Asian porn: the men have tiny penises, so it makes sense the women also have small vaginas.

    ...

    How come nobody told me this before!!!! ;-0


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 920 ✭✭✭elvis2002


    man sometimes I wonder how these guys are finding girls that want to loose it with them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,647 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    elvis2002, please read the charter and post constructively.
    dublindude wrote: »
    I posted this on boards before and got an awful bollicking for it, but it's true: Asian women have small vaginas (my ex was Asian.)
    Small people have small body parts. However, I know Chinese couple where he is well over 6 feet tall and a plays American Football and she is about 5 foot two. They are expecting a baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    You say shes a virgin, but has she ever been fingered before?

    The first time my bf tried it with me even his small finger hurt. now i can take 2 fingers but its still a small bit sore. we havent had sex yet, working up to it.

    one thing that makes it less sore is if she has an orgasm. maybe try that first?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,981 ✭✭✭monosharp


    Victor wrote: »
    elvis2002, please read the charter and post constructively.

    Small people have small body parts. However, I know Chinese couple where he is well over 6 feet tall and a plays American Football and she is about 5 foot two. They are expecting a baby.

    Isn't that pretty standard (big asians) in Northern China ?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,044 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Off topic and unhelpful posts will get you banned from this forum.
    Read the charter and abide by the rules while posting.
    Have a nice day
    Thaedydal.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 24 seeshell


    im not sure that a guys height has anything to do with him being well endowed or not.. :D

    but otherwise i would suggest that u use ur fingers to loosen up her muscles. thats what my bf did as even his small finger hurt..that part was a bit painful but when we finally had sex it didnt hurt much..:)

    hope this helps :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 53 ✭✭strawberrybox


    does she use tampax? cos if she does i suspect there is nothing physically wrong with her if she can get one of them up its prolly just nervousness, just be gentle with her and dont make it all about having sex just tell her you just want to touch her without it leading to anything and she may relax a bit more if she is not thinking about actual penetration


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,738 ✭✭✭mawk


    monosharp wrote: »
    Isn't that pretty standard (big asians) in Northern China ?

    bit of russian blood in em?

    anyway, the op mentioned that they had alread tried fingering and that it was unsucessful.

    and yes while PI is NOT a medical board when something like is said, i think its smart to point out the strong possability of an actual medical condition rather than say "try lighting some candles first."

    but of course that said.. do that too. miiight be first time jitters. does she have any problems with self penetration?


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