is he in love with me?

lauren_f

this is for all guys out there....
how do i tell if my bf is in love with me besides him just saying it? any guy who has been madly in love with a girl... how did u show her u loved her?
what is the best way of finding out if he is in love with me like i am with him?

spinandscribble

if you've told him you love him and he hasnt replied then i'd take it he doesnt. i think you'd know if he was by the way he was with you compared to how he was at the start. how long have you been going out?

challengemaster

I suppose there's not a lot you can do.. You could ask him? I suppose after that, all you can do is look out for something that might indicate it. or even ask his mates about it? lads do chat..

dudara

It's not a test that the poor man has to pass.

Some people are not much good at saying those 3 little words. Yet, it doesn't mean that they don't have those affections.

So look for more subtle signs. Look for how he treats you, how he interacts with you. Does he protect you when out in a busy spot, all the small signs.

Don't be pushing him or appearing insecure. There's nothing less attractive than that.

Wibbs

Real simple; actions speak louder than words.

highlydebased

Wibbs wrote: »

Real simple; actions speak louder than words.

Agree with that......

How long have ye been going out? One does not fall in love over night, either. Thats something I learned the hard way......:rolleyes:

K-9

lauren_f wrote: »

how do i tell if my bf is in love with me besides him just saying it? any guy who has been madly in love with a girl... how did u show her u loved her?
what is the best way of finding out if he is in love with me like i am with him?

You have another thread entitled night clubs without other halves.
You seem to have a lot of issues at the moment.

If he has told you he loves you well.......

How does a man show a girl he loves her? Well is there something or things that make you think he doesn't?

On the last question, don't think you can measure love.

Finally, what age are you and is this your first relationship?

Spoony2

lauren_f wrote: »

this is for all guys out there....
how do i tell if my bf is in love with me besides him just saying it? any guy who has been madly in love with a girl... how did u show her u loved her?
what is the best way of finding out if he is in love with me like i am with him?

you should really chill out you sound really obsesive about this guy which in the end will make him run away from you .

I think you need to stop focusing on LOVE and star having fun.

If you say you are in love with him and he's not inlove with you, deal with it dont try make soem one be in love with you just chill..... things happen in there own time and besudes id say your about 17 so there plenty of other blokes whol be in love and out of love with you...

How Strange

lauren_f ...this is for all guys out there....
how do i tell if my bf is in love with me besides him just saying it? any guy who has been madly in love with a girl... how did u show her u loved her?
what is the best way of finding out if he is in love with me like i am with him?

If he tells you he loves you then just believe him. There is no best way or anyway of finding out if the depth of his love is the same as yours.

You sound very clingy so I'd say questions like this would wear down his love very quickly. Relax a little bit.

Changing dreams

Not to sound stupid, but you should just know!

From how he looks at ou and talks to you and everything!