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i dont understand

  • 06-10-2007 8:51pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Right , i appologise in advance another stupid guy problem but i'd appreciate an outside opinion

    Guy and girl meet through mutual friends, guy makes it known to said friends that he likes girl, girl (me) is delighted because she also like guy, guy kisses girl on a night out...

    Now i have no idea where i stand. The kiss hasn't been mentioned between us since. I do know that hes been asking mutual friend about me what i'm like etc, i'm mad about him but he's started acting really wierd around me, if i turn up at a friends house and he happens to be there he'll make himself scarce. But if I go out with friends and he's not there he'll start fishing to see if i was with any other guys. I dont know what to do, i really like him but he's giving me mixed signals, It'd kill me if i told him how i felt and he rejected me (been there before), and even if i did work up the courage to tell him i don't even know how i'd bring it up (especially since he seems to be pretending the kiss never happened) :( Any advice/opinions


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  • #2
    JohnnyStones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 306 ✭✭JohnnyStones


    "if i turn up at a friends house and he happens to be there he'll make himself scarce"

    from his actions i reckon he wants nothing to do with you;
    Sorry,but there's plenty more fish in the sea:cool: :cool:


  • #3
    sobriquet
    Closed Accounts Posts: 413 ✭✭sobriquet


    His behaviour is definitely weird, and without knowing more about him it's hard to say why. Is he a quiet sort, not really involved with women much? Then he may be just shy (in a way) and unsure how to or afraid to get on with it. Has he had previous girlfriends, would he be the kind of fella to simply ask a girl out if he fancies her? If so, then maybe he just likes the idea that you're making yourself available, and wants to keep that going without doing anything about it.
    idontknow12 wrote:
    It'd kill me if i told him how i felt and he rejected me (been there before)
    It wouldn't, and it's an option. Ask him out, unambiguously. If he says yes, grand; if he says no then move on and don't backtrack.

    Tbh, I agree with JohnnyStones, it all sounds like hard work for a guy who apparently likes you and is making known that fact. More fish in the sea.


  • #4
    togster
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,931 ✭✭✭togster


    Yup hes just a bit shy.


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