2 minute man

LegacyUser

has anyone got a similar issue,i last 2 minutes!
the only thing that helps me last longer is 4 pints and a splif or therabout but on any given morning or day i just can last,i have tried coing table thinking about all sorts to keeep the wolf from the door but nothing works,my g/f says she doesnt mind and we still do stuff all the time and i make sure she has come before i go in because i know she wot get an orgasm by me alone in 2 minutes so help me please

muppetkiller

Try the new Mates Endurance( I think that's what they're called)..in a green box.Honestly you hardly feel a thing with them...(In fact you'll probably pass out from exhaustion lol).

stcatherine

Hi, read this thread :http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2055152635

I posted in there about a little bottle of magic stuff that we use and it works. It's not pills or anything illegal.

Pat the Baker

There are condoms that slightly numb your lad.

togster

Try having a **** and when you are about to ejaculate stop. Repeat a few times before you cum. Gradually increase the number of times you do this per **** and you will see improvements in no time. Its supposed to work by strengthening some muscle down there. Worked for me:o

Marksie

Potions and lotions dont really address the issue. What is the point of numbing areas as it cuts down on sensation and experience.?? Its great for those who sell the stuff, but for the persoin using they become reliant on it. Similarly "thinknig about other things" is really now being present is it?

Better to learn to control your need to have an ejaculatory orgasm. For that is what it is donw to in the end lack of cobtrol over what you want and how to achieve it. It is because you are orgasm orientated, a common western preoccupation

However, a discussion on non orgasmic goals is not what you are asking, so here is some practical, non chemical advice:

One method is by PC control, strengthening this muscle allows you to prevent ejaculatory orgasm and have nonejaculatory orgasms without losing erection.

A second method is to practice a stop start technique (possibly combined with the above). You can do this with or without you gfriend persent as you bring yourself by self pleasure almost to the point of no return then stop. It helps to build muscles again and for you to learn a measure of control.

Slow, switch or change positions.

When you begin to orgasm your breath and heart rate intensifies and you tense up.

Breath slow and regular and keep your body relaxed. Bretha deeply into the genital area.
The golden spot: there is a spot between the genitals and the anus which, if pressed will delay ejaculation. you or your g/friend can do this.

It takes time as it is a process you learn, but will have major advantages over artificial methods,which are a lazy quick fix and not addressing the underlying issue.

Oh and finally: Change your mindset, don't be goal oriented, make the journey the be all and end all, not teh finishing line

stcatherine

Marksie wrote:

The golden spot: there is a spot between the genitals and the anus which, if pressed will delay ejaculation. you or your g/friend can do this.

This has the absolute opposite effect in Hubby's case

Marksie

stcatherine wrote:

This has the absolute opposite effect in Hubby's case

Try pressing with the thumb and finger around the base of the p*nis then

AckwelFoley

Cant say ive ever had that problem.

Mind you i slept with alot of ugly women!

Drinking is not the answer though, you lose the enjoyment of sex in my opinion

LegacyUser

thanks alot marksie i will defo try that and my g/f really wants to help so it should work if we practice..i have a hang up about sex because i think i can only do it if i drink and smoke so everytime i want decent action i drink and smoke which leads to alot of drinking and smoking which isnt good so i want to enjoy it sober as a judge and then have a wiffter and afew beers then if i master your technique how long could i expect to last??

Mr. Presentable

Nothing wrong with you. Bang on average, apparently

http://www.wellmanclinic.org/menshealth/erectiledysfunction/prematureejaculation/prematureejaculation.htm

Marksie

nipplenuts wrote:

Nothing wrong with you. Bang on average, apparently

http://www.wellmanclinic.org/menshealth/erectiledysfunction/prematureejaculation/prematureejaculation.htm

i had read that before, thanks for the link before i made the comment. Not a good average is it?

Mr. Presentable

Marksie wrote:

i had read that before, thanks for the link before i made the comment. Not a good average is it?

I dunno. Two minutes is not too long to wait for the best feeling ever

Marksie

nipplenuts wrote:

I dunno. Two minutes is not too long to wait for the best feeling ever

Well i am going to try and keep it on topic so. That was an interesting comment. As if you use PC control and breathing, you can extend both the feeling and the duration with practice.
Essentially by focussing on PC control, relaxation and breathing techniques you can experience genital and subtle body ecstatic states which run into one another over extended periods. That "best feeling in the world" doesn't have to be an isolated instance with a recovery period but an ongoing phenomenon. A guy can be just as multiorgasmic as a woman and can also expand and increase the range of his orgasmic state beyond the genital. It really isn't an oesteric principle, but very practical all around.

OP: Try suggesting no penetration nights with your g/f. Acting as receiver and giver in turn and dont just focus on the genitals, really explore every inch of each other. You can incorporate the techniques described above. You already state that you make sure your g/friend orgasms before you penetrate. If you have nights like these you can really explore the range of ecstatic states you both can share. You can easily expand her orgasmic potantial in both depth breadth and scope as well as dealing with your longevity.

Edit: it also has implication beyond the physical as you are essentialy learning and connecting with and about each other.

dlofnep

Could be worse! You could last so long you end up falling asleep. Yes, it's happened!