Trust Issues

That_Guy

I've recently come out of a relationship and it was a really horrible experience for me.
I was going out with my ex girlfriend for almost a year. Everything was going great or at least that's what I thought but without warning everything changed.
I got dumped through text which was really horrible especially when it came from someone you thought loved you.
I was really cut up about it and I hurt myself over it which I realise now was so stupid.
We had planned to go to the debs together but she said she didn't want to go with me anymore and that she didn't want to be friends or anything.
We haven't talked since and I really miss her because she helped me a lot. I felt I was worth something but then it was all taken away so suddenly by that text.
I'm now too scared to get into another relationship because I'm worried the same thing will happen again. I miss being with someone but I don't want to risk it happening again.

Talliesin

Just don't, let things lie for a bit. No rush.

Rozabeez

If you've only come out of it recently then the trust issues will be normal for awhile, it's all raw. As Talliesin said, let it lie for awhile. Even if you're lonely, don't go on the hunt for someone new right away, it'll only be rebound and never work.

That_Guy

That_Guy wrote:

I'm now too scared to get into another relationship because I'm worried the same thing will happen again. I miss being with someone but I don't want to risk it happening again.

Ive been there, u need to take some "you" time and let it pass. Dont worry about it though, not everyone is going to f*ck you over. you'll learn that over time.

The Real B-man

That_Guy wrote:

I've recently come out of a relationship and it was a really horrible experience for me.
I was going out with my ex girlfriend for almost a year. Everything was going great or at least that's what I thought but without warning everything changed.
I got dumped through text which was really horrible especially when it came from someone you thought loved you.
I was really cut up about it and I hurt myself over it which I realise now was so stupid.
We had planned to go to the debs together but she said she didn't want to go with me anymore and that she didn't want to be friends or anything.
We haven't talked since and I really miss her because she helped me a lot. I felt I was worth something but then it was all taken away so suddenly by that text.
I'm now too scared to get into another relationship because I'm worried the same thing will happen again. I miss being with someone but I don't want to risk it happening again.

Exactly the same thing happend to me let it lie for a while dont go rushing into things ive just started getting interested in the idea of a relationship again but im enjoying the single life your only young once enjoy yourself

That_Guy

Thanks guys for the help and advice. Means a lot.