Why do I feel bad?

LegacyUser

Found a house (for college) on Monday and we needed one more person. So me and this other lad found this random girl (really really hot as well) who said she would. So got back to the agent to say we have enough people and we would take the place. Then they started fúcking us about and wouldnt answer our phone calls. Then today they finally told us that the landlord wanted more money then 1st stated and for a full year and not the college year. Yesterday we called around and no one would rent to students. So we found this place today but it was only a 3 bed and we had to get rid of the the girl.

And now I feel bad for getting rid of the girl, TBH I would much rader to live with her (because of her single friends ) then one of the lads because ive known him for years and he one of them people who you get along with but living together is another story.

Even though the girl was seeing someone I was looking forward to getting to know her.

Why the fúck do I really care when I dont even know her?

Drift

Would you feel bad if she wasn't hot?

What I'm getting at is are you feeling bad because you all got a house and she got screwed over or are you feeling bad because she was hot and you wanted to score with her or her hot friends?

Nothing wrong with feeling a little guilty about the first ... you could text/ring her and apologise and explain the situation. (If you're really interested in being her friend then you could suggest a night on the town to make it up.)

If you just feel bad cos you missed out on the chance to live with a hottie then just get over yourself.

Dudess

Straightforward really. You fancy her, and deep down you hope that she and her boyfriend will break up - then you could seize your chance if she was living with you. Many of us have been in a similar situation - I know I have several times! Things don't always work out as smoothly as that though. It's more of a fantasy than anything. Plus, I presume she seemed fairly sound - therefore you feel a bit guilty at letting her down. But I'm sure she will appreciate that it's not your fault.
So you've just gotta soldier on I'm afraid. Unless you want to look for somewhere else with an extra room and let her know if you find one (presuming you have her number). I doubt your mates would be too happy with that, considering the trouble you've had getting student accommodation so far. And she may have found something else by now.
But you don't actually know her - she might be a nightmare to live with.

blow69

I think that you should have got the house with her.I mean you would still see your friend and this way she'd have her friends over at your place.That way you could make even more friends and maybe hook up with one of them.

henessjon

because of your whoremoans

King of Kings

i don't buy the fancying bit others have thrown at you.
basically it's the excitement of a new friend - and a new avenue to meet girls through her rather than the same old same old you get with your mate.and you feel you've lost that
just get her number

Marksie

King of Kings wrote:

i don't buy the fancying bit others have thrown at you.

Oh I do, because of these statements:

whydoido wrote:

(really really hot as well)

whydoido wrote:

TBH I would much rader to live with her (because of her single friends )

whydoido wrote:

Even though the girl was seeing someone I was looking forward to getting to know her.

In all honesty, not getting the house with this person is absolutely the best thing.
One cannot have a comfortable living arrangment when the OP has clearly stated his reasoning for wanting her there.
IN the end it has avoided wider issues

Rossibaby

because you want to bonk her...anyways living with hot girls would be great...it gives you a reason to chat in the house with them as aposed to fellas you've nothing in common with and just grunt at you.go with the bird mate