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Bit of help for a young guy?

  • 20-09-2007 12:13am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    So, just gonna ask it straight out. How does a young 17 year old guy who doesn't have that much experience with girls get a girl he just met and really likes to, y'know, notice him...

    Thanks in advance!


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  • #2
    Carrigart Exile
    Closed Accounts Posts: 994 ✭✭✭Carrigart Exile


    fcsbcsk wrote:
    So, just gonna ask it straight out. How does a young 17 year old guy who doesn't have that much experience with girls get a girl he just met and really likes to, y'know, notice him...

    Thanks in advance!

    Well don't home in on her like an exocet missile. Have a laugh with her, say hi. If you are going on somewhere else say something like 'we are all heading to [name], maybe say you later there'. If she is there, she likes you, you can say hi again and ask her how her night has went..........you know, make like she's a normal human being:D


  • #3
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    Carrigart Exile wrote:
    Well don't home in on her like an exocet missile. Have a laugh with her, say hi. If you are going on somewhere else say something like 'we are all heading to [name], maybe say you later there'. If she is there, she likes you, you can say hi again and ask her how her night has went..........you know, make like she's a normal human being:D
    :eek:

    Or likes one of the other blokes in the group.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'The most important thing here is when talking to her to ask her questions and really listen to the reponses. People really remember those who make them feel important. The worst thing in the world and a huge mistake that boys particularly make is to only talk about themselves, or to deliver lectures at their chosen subject!
    So when involved in conversation, make her feel like the most importnat person in the room to you at that moment. Then when a natural break in conversation comes after you have been talking for a while, move on. Go talk to your friends.
    Be cool, don't follow her around or crowd her too much. Take it slowly and let the natural friendship build up. When returning for a second conversation, perhaps a day later or whatever, remember things that she told you the first time and ask follow up questions about them
    e.g. If she mentioned worrying about an exam she was going to have the next day or something, aske her how it went. She will be touched that you remembered. that kind of thing also makes sure that she notices you.

    So questions, questions, questions. The most important thing you will ever learn! It really is the one thing that so many guys get wrong.'


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