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What will I do?

  • 16-09-2007 4:23pm
    #1
    confusedlass
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    Hi all, first posting. Just wanted a bit of advice. I have been meeting a guy I work with for drinks for the past say 4 months (usually I ask him if he wants to go for a drink). Until quite recently I thought it was just a platonic thing. The last time we met we kissed. I haven't seen the guy since although we have been in contact via text message. I don't work in a 9 to 5 job and might not see colleagues for a few weeks as it is shiftwork. The thing is that I'm not sure how I feel about him. Just wondering whether I should text him and ask him to go for a drink during the week or not and not mention the kiss? I do enjoy his company and he is a really nice guy. Usually I would not hesitate but this time I am because of the kiss. What would you folks do? :confused:


Comments

  • #2
    D Bronc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭D Bronc


    It wouldnt do any harm to txt/ring and ask him to meet up for a drink, but i think it would be silly not to mention the kiss, you have to talk to him and see where to go from here. If you like him just pick up the phone and go for it.

    Whats the worst that could happen?:confused:


    By the way; Welcome to Boards.:)


  • #3
    The Mad Hatter
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,718 ✭✭✭The Mad Hatter


    I would think that the only way to find out how you feel about a person is to see them.

    Personally, I wouldn't mention the kiss, but I don't see what harm it can do either way.


  • #4
    jd83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,445 ✭✭✭jd83


    If you like is company any you kissed each other give him a text and see where it goes. Sure if it doesnt work out you work shifts you mighnt not see each other to often. Good luck and welcome to boards


  • #5
    confusedlass
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭confusedlass


    rory1983 and D Bronc, thanks for you welcome to Boards! Perhaps if I just sent him a text (like I usually do) seeing if he was around and wanted to go for a drink. I will not mention the kiss unless he says it. If he does say something or we end up kissing again I don't want him to think that we might be starting something when I'm not 100% sure about whether I like him or not. I don't want to hurt his feelings. The other side of the coin is that he might not want to meet for a pint anymore? This is so confusing!


  • #6
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    confusedlass wrote:
    This is so confusing!

    Erm, no its not. Its really fúcking easy.

    See, you walk into a shop and look at the sweet counter and think "Hmmn. I think I will have a bounty bar today" and you buy it. Thats it, uncomplicated and fast. No hard decisions, unless of course you procrastinate about everything.

    Now, apply the bounty bar principle to people. Indicative thought process should be "Hmm. I quite fancy going for a pint with the x chap I met a few weeks back. I think I will give him a call".

    Thats it. It doesnt have to be any more complicated than that. Just like my sig, it really is THAT easy.

    K-


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