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shall i reunite???

  • 12-09-2007 11:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    right bit of a back story, i started seeing this girl after meeting her at a party and we met a couple of times after.

    we both went to glastonbury with separate sets of friends and we said we'd meet up whilst over there (it was 2-3 weeks since we had last seen each other) so we met up over there and continued doing the festival thing, we both got drunk and ended up having sex on the first night.

    suffice to say i couldn't preform due to a number of reasons i think (i hope), i was drunk, tired from travelling, my first time.

    when we gave up after a good while i hear her crying to sleep thinking it was her fault at which i then convince her it wasn't and gave her the reasons above. she came around, stopped crying and we talked through the night then about stuff.

    the next few days though so ignored me and i was too upset/shy to talk to her in front of our both sets of friends.

    so when we got home we were exchanging texts and she basically said that it was moving too fast and that she needed time to think.

    well the fact of the matter is it's been since then i haven't made contact with her.

    and from her lack of contact over the festival weekend and the long period of silence since then i've been thinking maybe she doesn't like me.

    just recently she posted on her blog one of them questionaires things that i read, you know the ones basically with the questions

    "Do you like anyone?
    yes, i'm crazy about someone, quite possibly one of the most amazing boys ever".

    but then the next question is...

    "How's your ex doing?
    good i think."

    so am i the guy she's crazy about, or am i the ex?


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  • #2
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Basically wait and see as you could be neither. If you're the one she's crazy about she'll be in contact with you soon enough. The moving too fast bit I'm not so sure of. It's possible, but I've found people have few worries about moving too fast with the one they want, unless she's just out of a serious longtermer. It's like the old chestnut "I'm not ready to settle down yet". Two weeks later they're engaged to someone else. Translation? "I'm not sure I'm ready to settle down with you".

    Wait and see, but keep your options open.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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