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Do I tell her how I feel

  • 26-08-2007 7:07pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I started going out with a girl earlier in the year and everything was going great. Unfortunately things didnt work out mainly because her ex was still around and she felt uncomfortable about it. They are now finished and I want to tell her how I feel about her. We haven't met in a while and have only been in contact by text. If the feelings aren't reciprocated, I'll be fine with that but I feel I need to tell her that she means alot to me and how much I like her etc. I am heading away for a few months but will be back regularly. I don't know if I will see her before I leave so do I tell her how I feel and if so, how?


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  • #2
    Victor
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,647 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    I don't think there is any harm in telling her if you are both single. Don't go overboard (tell her you like her, not love her), but make sure you do it in person. Set up a meeting and go somewhere you can talk. If you want, find an plausible excuse to meet up.


  • #3
    biko
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,219 ✭✭✭✭biko


    Ring her up and tell her you're going away but would like to do things whenever you are back home again.


  • #4
    Rossibaby
    Closed Accounts Posts: 421 ✭✭Rossibaby


    hello

    my advice from my vast experience would be to act casual about it so you keep an element of mystery within the relationship.just tell her that when you get back you would like to see her but in a kind of sly way;-)the worst thing to do would be confess you like her a lot and then your gone for a while while she broods over it and suddenly gets scared and realised she wants her ''space''.be confident my friend and all will work out


  • #5
    D Bronc
    Closed Accounts Posts: 71 ✭✭D Bronc


    Definitely u have to tell her. Just tell her the truth u wish things didnt have to end last time round and you still "like" her. Even if you end up with egg on your face at least u tried and you wont go through life wondering "what if". Go on be brave, whats meant for u wont pass u by!;) Best of luck, hope it works out.:)


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